Secular Sexuality

So, you’ve been curious. You haven’t quite felt comfortable asking. These are probably good instincts but why did Al Gore invent the internet if it wasn’t to have a better understanding of other people’s genitals, am I right? Phoebe Rose returns to the show for a bit of show and tell and a concerted effort to help the world recognize and understand trans women, or atleast their underpants. Catch the not-so-delicate conversation plus your calls and questions and what’s turning us on this week on SecX!


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If the best things in life are free then talking about the birds and bees with the hosts of SecX is what we all want. And since SecX gives you such a thrill, why not join us on a mission (away) from god? As new host Kara Griffin joins the show they meet Nate and Christy for a conversation about atheist activism and the importance of sex positivity during these trying times. Catch our conversation about atheism, activism and the inevitability of awkward moments as sex positive people in an increasingly dont-say-gay world. All that plus your calls and questions and what’s turning us on this week on SecX!

Oh, the masks we wear. Sometimes because we want to, sometimes for safety from the Governor of Florida, and occasionally because we’re attending a Victorian-era ball. Tonight, these three Muskequeers will be talking about our experiences as queer folk who don’t present as such, our journey to being honest with ourselves, and how much fun butt stuff can be. Join Nate, Helen and Jason this Thursday, call in with your questions and stories, and don’t miss this episode of Secular Sexuality!

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Secular Sexuality show is LIVE every Thursday from 7:00 to 8:30pm Central Time

Each and every week we encourage people to take a quiet moment for themselves and… well you’ve seen it. You know we’ve talked about everything from porn addiction (myth) to gooning (surprisingly real) and still somehow forgot to talk about the benefits of masturbation- turns out the perks of self-love aren’t always self-evident. Enter then writer and Sex Coach Shannon Burton who walks Kara and Christy through a long list of best practices and special treats for your favorite special someone- YOU! The low down on going down low, what’s turning us on this week and all the best euphemisms on tonight’s SecX!

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Zombies rising from the dead, whole armies of injured peasants and well dressed super assassins all have plenty of screen time in our culture- but what about female pleasure? How is it that John Wick can kill 84 people in a little over two hours, usually without breaking his stride, but Blue Is The Warmest Color receives the cinematic death penalty for showing two women enjoying each other’s love? If you’ve ever wondered why you can make fun of queer people in a movie but can’t have them kiss Josh Entner of The Bloody Good Film Podcast joins Christy and Laura in a conversation about sex, cinema and violence. Bloody good films, pretty women and your calls and questions plus what’s turning us on this week on SecX!

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Secular Sexuality show is LIVE every Thursday from 7:00 to 8:30pm Central Time

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A painted fingernail, a tattered pair of overalls or a genderswaping nickname- we all participate in a little gender f**kery from time to time. And a little role play, gender play or just play with gender roles might be exactly what we need to unleash, unlock or understand ourselves. But can we go too far, or make a mess of things as we play? Veteran performers and sex-worker advocates Sinn Sage and Summer Hart join Christy in a conversation about the silliness and sissyness of it all and the roles and genders we play. Two incredible porn producers, what’s turning us on and of course your calls, questions and curiosities on this week’s SecX!

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Secular Sexuality show is LIVE every Thursday from 7:00 to 8:30pm Central Time

Peanut butter and jelly, apples and bananas, condoms and non-oil based lube; some things feel like they're just built to go together. If you’re a fan of Secular Sexuality however you may not like PB&J- we suspect there are more peanut butter and banana people out there then Kinsey’s classical survey data may indicate. So what happens when 3 bananas decide to buck the ancient social order and make their own life for themself? Well, bad jokes, for one, but also a Secular Sexuality episode about complementarianism and the gender myths that still impact our lives. Christy, Nate and ObjectivelyDan, what’s turning us on and your calls and questions on this week’s SecX!

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When you sincerely believe that god has a perfect plan for your life and a Proverbs 31 wife all lined up for you, the dating scene can be a little bit different. When you lose all of that through divorce and the deconstruction of your faith, night clubs can suddenly seem irrationally intimidating, to say nothing of one night stands. Author and speaker Drew Bekius joins Christy in an intimate conversation about dating and deconstructing and what it really feels like to save your first date until after marriage. Purity culture problems abound, your stories and questions and of course what’s turning us on this week on SecX!

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