Is your marriage feeling more like a battleground than a partnership? On this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I share the six simple steps that helped us rebuild trust, improve communication, and rediscover joy in our relationship. If your marriage feels stuck, we hope this episode offers a roadmap to lasting change.

“Do you and your spouse struggle to tackle challenges as a team? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Paul & Shannon share how they’ve learned to align their strengths and overcome ‘me versus you’ mindsets in their marriage. Discover the simple strategies that helped them turn conflict into collaboration—and how you can too!”

If you’re a husband that struggles to emotionally connect with your wife, you’re going to want to download our 7 Magic Questions for Husbands. These questions will help you find the right words at the right time so your wife will feel loved and cared for.

It’s been a little bit since our last podcast episode, but… we’re back.

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of intimacy, marriage expectations, and what might really be behind a wife’s lack of desire. Listen in as we offer surprising insights and actionable steps that could save a struggling marriage—and even reignite the passion you thought was lost. It’s our hope that this episode challenges assumptions and provides real hope for couples at a crossroads.

Once again, I’ve been an imperfect husband. Unknowingly, over the last several months, I’ve been doing something that has made my wife feel unloved and unimportant. In today’s podcast, you’ll hear us work through the issue together, and see what it looks like to get reconnected again.

Sometimes, my wife comes up with some CRAZY dreams and ideas. It’s in those moments that my true character as her husband is revealed.

On today’s podcast, you’ll hear about Shannon’s latest “adventure” and what a joy it was being her biggest cheerleader (minus the pom poms).

Want to work on having a happier marriage while enjoying the beautiful blue waters and white sandy beaches of the Caribbean? Listen in on the conversations from the couples who went on our 2024 Secure Marriage Cruise and hear how their marriages have changed for the better.

Ever had to make a decision which is guaranteed to make at least one person angry, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do to get out of it?

On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll give you crystal clear instructions on what to do if your friend tells you they’re having an affair, but doesn’t want you to tell their spouse. Buckle up.

What are you supposed to think (or do)when you’ve told your husband for years that you want to be celebrated on your birthday, and he still completely forgets or does lame last-minute things? That’s what we’re tackling on today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast.

P.S. We’re also taking a painful walk down memory lane and talking about some of the ways I hurt Shannon because of my deep lack of self-awareness.

Do you know how to get emotionally reconnected after a fight? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll walk you through the secret recipe you need to know that will make your wife’s heart melt with love and affection.