What does love that reflects Christ really look like?

In this episode, we unpack the powerful difference between pursuit and persuasion — and why discerning the two can be the difference between healing and heartbreak.

Through scripture, raw truth, and personal revelation, I explore how godly pursuit mirrors Jesus’ love: patient, safe, and rooted in truth. In contrast, persuasion—often disguised as passion—leads us away from peace and into confusion, shame, and compromise.

This episode brought healing to parts of me I didn’t know still needed it. I pray it offers you the same clarity, growth, and grace to choose the love that leads you closer to God.

It’s one of the most important conversations I’ve had yet — and it just might change how you see love forever.

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This week on Seeding the Soil, it’s a heart-to-heart moment. We open up about the weight of exams, future uncertainty, and those seasons when God feels distant — and faith feels fragile. It’s not a sermon, but a personal reflection on what it means to keep walking when the storm won’t let up. Through two powerful stories from the book of Mark, we explore the tension between belief and doubt, and the invitation to trust God even when it’s hard. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or unsure of how to move forward, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone — and you don’t have to carry it all by yourself.

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Hi friends! There’s no new episode of Seed in the Soil this week, as I’m currently writing my first set of exams in my final year of studies. It’s an important season of stewardship, and I want to honor the work and calling the Lord has placed before me by giving it the focus it deserves.

Thank you for your grace, support, and understanding. I’ll be back in two weeks with a fresh episode that I trust will bless and encourage you. Until then, may the Lord continue to water the seeds He’s planted in your life. 🌱

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Welcome to a lighter step on sacred soil. In this episode of Seed in the Soil, we ask a simple but profound question: What if joy wasn’t just allowed in our faith—but essential to it?

Too often, adulthood trades play for productivity and wonder for worry. But Scripture reminds us that childlike faith isn’t naive—it’s holy. This episode is an invitation to return to the delight of being God’s kids. Through laughter, creativity, and soul-deep play, we reconnect with the divine joy that strengthens, heals, and anchors us in love.

Let’s remember together that faith and fun are not at odds—one needs the other. The fruits of the Spirit include joy for a reason. So take a breath, let go of the pressure to perform, and come explore how playfulness can be a powerful, God-honoring way to live.

This isn’t about being silly for the sake of it—it’s about discovering a more whole, light-filled, and worshipful life. Tune in for reflection, renewal, and a gentle reminder that maybe the most grown-up thing you can do... is play.

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• Origami Jumping Frog: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vlb2udqPx-M
• Air-dry clay/ playdough - Women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fz0ASA3OlCE
• Air-dry clay/ playdough - men: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhLn2LZEfl4

• painting: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/5eY9TlFEzWw
• Drawing: https://www.youtube.com/@ArtHubPlus/videos

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In a world that rushes love, what does it mean to wait well? In this episode, we slow down and explore the quiet power of healing, surrender, and singleness. We talk about the heart’s posture during seasons of waiting and how to prepare—not just for a relationship, but for purpose. Whether you're navigating singleness, hoping for marriage, or learning to trust the process, this conversation invites you into a deeper perspective on love, identity, and becoming whole before belonging to someone else.

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In this special episode, I sit down to answer some deeply personal questions—about my journey with God, the heart behind Seed in the Soil, and the quiet moments of struggle and surrender that have shaped who I am. Through honest reflections—some joyful, some tender—I share parts of my story I’ve never spoken aloud.

Together, we’ll explore the beauty of calling, the weight of waiting, and the ways God meets us in both silence and suffering. This episode touches on sensitive parts of my journey and may stir tender places in your own—but sometimes, that’s where the real connection happens.

Join me, Kayla Fraqueiro, as I open up in hopes that the King of the universe might speak to you through my experiences. I pray you learn a little more about who I am, and feel a little less alone in your own walk.

If you have any further questions or thoughts you'd like to share, feel free to drop them in the comment section below or reach out via my Instagram page. I’d love to continue this conversation with you!

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What does the Bible really say about managing money? In this episode, we uncover six powerful principles drawn straight from Scripture that reveal how to honor God with your finances. Rooted in trust, stewardship, generosity, contentment, wisdom, and prayer—these timeless truths offer a fresh perspective on how to handle money with purpose and peace.

Whether you're navigating financial stress or simply seeking a God-centered approach, this episode invites you to explore the freedom and clarity that comes from aligning your finances with His Word.

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Starting a relationship with God can feel challenging, but it’s also one of the most rewarding journeys you’ll ever take. In today’s episode, we explore what it truly means to have a relationship with Christ and the steps we can take to begin that relationship. From different ways to spend time with God to learning to love Him, we’ll dive into the heart of understanding what it means to be in relationship with our Creator.

Join me as we uncover the truths found in scripture and reflect on personal experiences, helping each of us discover what a relationship with God looks like for His individual children. Don’t miss this opportunity to explore and grow together!

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In a world filled with noise, conflict, and uncertainty, how can we truly find peace?

This episode explores what it means to have peace—not as the world gives, but as Christ, who is our Prince of Peace, gives.

Through various scriptures, we uncover the deep, unshakable peace that comes from trusting and surrendering to God.

We’ll dive into how peace isn’t just a fleeting feeling but a place of rest for the soul, beyond the chaos of our circumstances.

More than that, we’ll discuss the call to be peacemakers in our own lives—cultivating harmony in our relationships, within our families, and with friends.

If you’re seeking clarity, comfort, and a renewed sense of calm, this episode is for you. Let’s journey together towards a peace that surpasses all understanding. 🌿💛

Welcome to the very first episode of Seed in the soil!

What a joy to begin this journey and share a message that speaks to the heart of growth, faith and purpose.

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In today's episode we discuss the different idea's of what it means to be intentionally planted in God's presence. Growth isn't always immediate, but every harvest begins with a season of planting.

As we explore the truth, we'll reflect on the importance of staying rooted in faith, trusting God's timing, and embracing the process of spiritual growth.

Tune in as we dive into scripture's that will encourage and challenge you to see your current season through a new lens.

Verse's read: (NIV translation used)

- Matthew 13: 3-9

-Matthew 13: 31-32

-John 15: 1-8

-Galatians 6: 8-9

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- Design of cover : Jarred David, https://www.instagram.com/unpackinggrace/

-Intro song: Xavier Van Den Heever, https://www.instagram.com/silverstride.music/

-Editing & Recording: Berno Smit,

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