This is an episode that I have tossed around in my head for a long time now. I have--for the most part--healed from the abuse I suffered over the last two years, and as proud of that as I am, doubt still remains and probably always will. Doubt that I'm safe, doubt that I'm secure, doubt that what I went through even fucking happened at all. So I put a poll out on Facebook and social media asking if there was interest in this episode, and there was a resounding yes in response. I conducted a survey, asked questions, and put together a list of lessons that I learned, and that others have told me they learned.