There is a difference in loving someone and someone feeling loved.

Practicing self respect is the biggest indication on how to point out whether someone is being blatantly disrespectful towards you. Still, I have read a list of other things that can help you determine if this person respects you without doubt.

Being curious when you are with someone and even with yourself is assurance that you will be doing all that you need to always be around and held accountable for your own actions. Be self-aware and know that for this moment you are a huge part of the success and even the failures. Keeping learning by being curious.