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You are holding yourself back from success in your own life, and realising YOU are the problem will help you to fix all of your life problems and live the life that you truly desire. 

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What should be the top priority in everyone's life?

Healing your inner lack. The lack that makes you ache for things. The lack that says you will be good enough; Once you have that job that body or whatever it is for you. Whatever goal you have put on a pedestal.

As a society, we value desire so much. But is it really worth it? Where does desire come from? It’s a result of not feeling fulfilled inside to cope with this lack of salvation your brain puts it on an external thing. “Oh, I am not happy because I don’t have this and that” It’s a sly trick. A hamster running on a wheel. That uneasiness, that trauma, that lack of self-worth is what you have to work through.

Otherwise, no goal or outcome will ever fulfil you. You will be chasing one thing after another; hoping to fix yourself. This is the only way to deal with your issues. To make real change happen. To accept your vulnerabilities.

To change yourself not the external outcomes.

I share with you how you can let go of all expectations in life!

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What is the height of confidence?

The death of all expectations.

True confidence and fulfilment come when you don’t need anything to heal you.

Those timeless un-healed wounds, that bleed at the slightest of touch.

The suturing of these wounds is what will bring true confidence and happiness.

A point where no failure or success can make or break you.

Expectations are like bubbles waiting to burst.

We think and fantasise our success and hope that will make those deep-rooted issues go away.

But you know if you have ever projected something in the future,

If you fail you feel bad; it bleeds.

If you succeed, you set a new goal; blinded by your unmet fulfilment.

So, both failure and success won’t help you escape this nightmare.

What you have to do is patch your wounds yourself.

Love yourself as you are, regardless of any outcome.

Loving yourself unconditionally is what will get you out of this incessant loop of misery.

You are good enough as you are. You don’t need to achieve something or do something.

 I share with you secrets as to why you are not able to achieve your goals. Letting go of your neediness and insecurities so you can tap into the right frequency to receive what you want from life. 

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Should I work harder or enjoy life more?

Enjoy life to get what you want. The idea of hard work creates insatiable desperation.

Because you have to hustle and become somebody and only then you will get what you want. It’s false. And you are being fooled. It’s way easier to have things be pulled towards you. Tell me, don't things start working out when you are in a positive mood? Doesn’t the sunshine a bit brighter and everything you want seems within reach? Then, why not aim for it? 

The feeling of lack never gets you anything because you are putting your dreams on a pedestal. Oh I have to work 16 hours a day to make money online; not true Oh, I can’t ask her out because I am not in the right mindset yet; doesn’t matter. When will you see the pattern? You are allowed to feel good and happy. You are allowed to enjoy. It won’t make you any less worthy of your goal.

Instead, it will make it a lot easier to get what you want. Now you don't have to stretch because you and your goals are on the same level. Just start walking!

I share with you why you should listen to your intuition and how to follow it.

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What should one do in one's free time?

Follow your intuition.

There is something calling you right now. Something new that your heart wants you to try.

It could be asking someone out, going to that new place, taking that dance class.

The question is; Are you going to try it?

Or suppress it like most people and suffer in silence.

Most people are held by the fear of failure. But here’s the kicker.

The regret of “not going for it” is incomparable to the sting you will feel if you fail.

When you miss out on the things you desire;

You will create a reality that feels like perpetual torment. And It’s very tough to escape.

No matter how much you ache, you can never act on it because it isn’t there anymore.

You will be left with ashes, remembering the fire that you once adored.

So, It’s much easier to just act on your intuition and fail.

As soon as you take one step towards what you want;

You will feel alive and invincible.

And it’s the greatest feeling in the world.

The only price to pay is to take that initial leap of faith.

I hope you run towards whatever’s calling you :)

I share with you how you can change the way you think so you can become more successful.

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What if I don't know what I want to do with my life?

Then it’s time to change how you think.

When you don’t know what you want, you are thinking with your mind.

Your monkey mind is projecting a logical goal and you are denying it.

Because it doesn’t feel right to you. And the things that feel right to you, you are too scared to try.

So you say; “Meh, I don’t know what I want”. It’s an easy cop-out to not do what you really want.

If you want to be happy, listen to your heart.

What is your gut feeling telling you?

Is it quitting that job and starting your business? or Breaking up a toxic relationship?

What makes you feel exhilarated and scared at the same time? What is your soul longing for you to try?

As soon as something comes up, your monkey mind will start justifying.

“Oh, you can never do that, you are a loser.”

“Oh, you don’t know how to start a business, stick to your job.”

But don’t let it win, discard this mental chatter.

Because there is no other way.

There is no magic meditation or affirmation that will make you happy.

Going after your wildest and seemingly unreasonable desires is what will make you happy.

Just follow your heart for once.

How to find happiness in your life? By realising you are the only one who is controlling whether you are happy or not!

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How do I get motivated every single day?

By realising that you have no choice.

Nothing less will get you your dreams. Your dream needs the amount of effort they need, daily. They don’t care about how you are feeling or what Jimmy said to you that day. They won’t come true if you don’t take consistent action. You can either be crippled by that or let that change you. You can either take little action and hope for some results

OR....

Do whatever it takes without any excuses. That’s the way. Discipline is a mental shift. There is no magic affirmation that will make you more disciplined. You have to realize if you don’t do it right than whatever minimal action you are taking is worth nothing. You might as well not take any action.

How you can destroy your ego and be free of it completely? By not letting yourself be a slay to your ego!

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Do we control our thoughts or do our thoughts control us?

Depends on you.

Most people are slaves of their own egos and will stay so for the rest of their lives. Your ego is the one that sneaks up and says;

“Don’t try this, you aren’t good enough”. “Don’t say that she will never like you”.

It’s a dark forest of thoughts that won’t let any light in. There is one way to break free from these thoughts that hold you. Take a leap of faith. It could be any leap of faith. It could be asking out your crush, changing your look, starting a business, traveling. Bold action in direction of your intuition is the only way to destroy this thing that controls you.

No amount of thinking will get you out of this. Because it is a powerful force. It’s built up of all the experiences you have had. It’s a force that holds most of humanity from going after their dreams.

Whatever your leap of faith is, why don’t you do it today?

Stop letting this thing hold you back. It doesn’t deserve to have power over you. You are so much more powerful and greater than that :)

How can you follow your passion? STOP thinking logically and start putting into action the life that you truly want to live. 

Should you follow your passions to wherever they may take you? Should you live a life only of what you love...or learn to love what you do?  How can you identify which path to you need to take?  How about which paths to avoid when going after your passion?  

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Stop with logical thinking.  

For a second, stop with all the what’s supposed to make you happy.  Feeling lost is a “feeling” and we should try to solve it that way.  Logic won’t help you because; people who logically have everything right in their life, feel lost too.  I want you to observe whatever comes up, as you read along.  There is one way to get out of this emotional abyss.  

Move closer to the things you enjoy.  Not what’s logically right. Not a college, a job, or even friends.  The things you low-key want to try but are scared they won’t make you happy and you will be sad.  That’s what you are afraid of, right? 

Trying something and the sadness that will come if it didn’t work.  You are sad anyway. You might as well try it and take a leap of faith.  It could be trying out a new sport or traveling or starting to write, starting a side business, asking someone out, cutting off toxic friends.  

Whatever you feel like doing, make a list.  Do the least scary one first.  

You will feel a little bit lighter and alive, you will automatically want to try the next one.  It’s going to be scary. You will have thoughts ( logic), stopping you from doing this.  But stick through. Because you owe that to yourself.  Your life will only get better if you take some different action. No amount of thinking will save you.  Different action towards your feeble yet authentic desires.

How you can change the way you think? By changing your thought patterns you decide the type of life that you want to live.

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Change the way you think.

The thoughts you have will ultimately decide what kind of life you have because thoughts lead to action.

But why do you think as you do?

Most of the thoughts you have a result of impressions made by other people on you. Online influencers, TV, News, whatever you consume affects your thoughts i.e. your life. From your ideal routine to ideal house everything is crafted by outer sources.

I want you to stop listening to those outer sources and start listening to your heart. Because you can trick your head but you can never trick your heart. Even if you get the ideal version of success that you had wanted your heart will still be miserable. That is what I realised in my life; The difference between my idea of success and what it should look like VS what I really want.

Start listening to your heart. What do you really want to do? Go on a hike? Go on a date? Get a new job? Because if you don’t listen to it that how can you ever be happy?

How can you stop worrying about the little things? It is simple and easy, all you have to do is STOP! Learn to have complete faith and trust in yourself  and everything that you have ever worried about with sizzle away.

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How can you stop worrying? 

This is how I stopped worrying about everything. 

So many things that we worry about and we think might have a catastrophic effect in our life don’t matter. The biggest waste of time is worrying about the little things that make no difference to your real goal. Whether that’s in spirituality, health, relationship. Worrying about what someone said behind your back. Worrying about whether you worked enough hours today.

Worrying about whether to tell this joke or that joke, all these things are a waste of time.

Remember, Only 20% of actions creates 80% of the results. It doesn’t matter which joke you tell as long as you are honest and vulnerable, it will create a real connection. It doesn’t matter how many hours you put in, as long as you moved the needle forward and accomplished what you set out to achieve. It doesn’t matter what somebody said behind your back as long as you know that they don’t know you better than you.

Always ask yourself, does it even make a difference? If it doesn’t let it go.