The Word of God is a powerful tool that covers all aspects of life. Without it, without God, we won’t truly know who we are nor embrace our power and purpose. Please expose yourself. Read the word, pray, hear the word. And always be encouraged. All things work together for our good. Trust it. I love you so much. And I love serving you! Enjoy. Don’t forget to share and fill others up as well. Thank you for filling my cup.

We are all big dreamers. We want so many things in so little time. And sometimes our dreams are too big and we have to take little steps to get there. But even those little steps may require so much from us. Sometimes we’re sitting with gifts and talents and blessings...waiting on tomorrow. Waiting for something bigger. Waiting for something better. Waiting for something that may never come. We stop ourselves because we’re so frightened by our power or by fear itself...and then we suppress ourselves and fail to live out our best potential and to the best of our ability. Today we encourage you to wait no more. Start today. Start now. Start with what you have. Don’t wait any longer. Do your research, learn, plan, structure, pray and go after all your dreams. With that said, welcome to our dream. Our way of healing.

Humans have this tendency of running away from becoming better people, by using the “but you know me, that’s how I am” card as an excuse. There’s no such thing. How you are isn’t always how you have to be. How you are isn’t always right. How you decide to do things has an effect on those around you and it’s necessary to implement the necessary changes to adapt to someone else’s needs and emotions. Work on yourself.

Every now and then, we need little reminders to get us back on track. Today we remind you of little facts that we take for granted, don’t want to admit, don’t want to hear, and sometimes just need to know.

We are so quick to, to talk, to ask, to seek to defend our needs and wants. But do we listen? Do we listen to ourselves? Do we listen to our spirit? Do we listen to our parents, partners, and colleagues and friends when they pour their hearts out to us in need, asking us to change our ways, asking for our help? Do we listen to God tell us “No”? Do we pay attention when in silence? Well... happy fruitful Friday loves.😅🍃🤍

Hello Queens and Kings, we come back!!! 😄. Happy new year!! I know we’re late to the party but we need to talk! It goes without saying, that not all of us are as hyped up about the new year because let’s be honest, who wants to get into a new year with hopes and dreams only to find that God has something else in mind? Some of us aren’t ready to plan yet, we don’t know what to plan, what to write down, what we’re meant to do this year... and we don’t know if what we hope to do will be done. But it’ll help us to remember that it all belongs to God... enjoy 🍃🤍

Friends are dangerous. And some friends are even more dangerous because of their intentions. Follow the story of how sometimes over-sharing the ins and outs of your relationship could “end in tears”.

Where do we draw the line when the man has cheated but then comes back home to say “I didn’t cheat. I’m allowed to have more than one partner” but none of that was communicated beforehand; the lady wasn’t the given the option to choose. We also talk about how sometimes the woman is the cause behind the cheating of men. They lack respect, love, and refuse to listen... what then can a man do when he doesn’t believe in beating you? Take a listen 🎧 😃

How often do we wonder why men cheat? This is a despicable, heart breaking act that leaves us confused, torn, mentally and emotionally damaged for years for some. Yes, women cheat as well for different reasons, we had to get to the bottom of why... and what cheating means to both men and women. Please enjoy these explanations and experiences from some wonderful beings within the Selfhood Community, thank you for your time!

Many a times we cry for the types of relationships other people have and begin comparing. Especially when our own relationships aren’t satisfactory. Time and time again we have fallen for the wrong people, experienced heartbreak in its most brutal form, and somewhat allowed ourselves to accept the worst is the norm of Relationships. When this happens, we blame God. We hate life. We wonder if we’re worthy, we question ourselves! Insecurities become the name of the game. We fall into every trap we can think of, until we are forced to simply ask ourselves if we ever involved God to begin with? What makes us think anything can last without the touch of God’s glory? Without it being His will? Without Him giving it a stamp of approval, showing it to us, wanting it for us? What makes us fail to realize that we accept the things we get because they reflect the way we think about ourselves and if we don’t talk to God about them, we will keep reliving them? How do we attract life partners and friendships we keep “hoping” for? We PRAY.