Romance is great, but it’s not what keeps a marriage strong. In this Love Month episode, we’re shifting the focus from “be romantic” to “be selfless”—because most marriages don’t fall apart from incompatibility… they fall apart from selfishness. If you’ve felt off-track lately, overwhelmed, or stuck in tension, this episode is a jolt back on track.

Discover

• Why “me over we” creates constant friction in marriage
• How conflict is often about unmet desires, not the surface issue
• The simple shift that makes love feel real again: you first = we first
• What we learned from hosting a Love Challenge Date Night (10 fun challenges!)
• Why love is a verb and how your heart follows your actions
• How to build a “competition of honor” that makes marriage fun again
• Practical ways to say yes more often and short-circuit selfishness
• A weekly Love Dare: one intentional act of selflessness every day

Key Points Discussed

• “Real love is not me first—it’s you first.”
• “Marriage becomes fun again when it becomes a competition of honor.”
• “Love doesn’t insist on its own way—so we interrupt selfishness on purpose.”

Bible Verses Mentioned

• James 4:1
• Philippians 2:3
• Romans 12:10
• Ephesians 5:25
• 1 Corinthians 13:5

Question for you

Where have you been putting me over we, and what’s one small way you can put your spouse first this week?

Call to Action

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And drop a comment: What’s your one act of selflessness this week?

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