Division is everywhere—politics, social media, opinions, and constant noise competing for our attention. And if we’re not careful, that division doesn’t just stay “out there”… it finds its way into our marriages.

In this January 2026 episode of Marriage Monthly, we talk honestly about how couples can stay united in a divided world. We explore why so many marriages are being discipled more by headlines than Scripture—and how refocusing on shared values, respect, and intentional connection can bring strength, peace, and unity back into your relationship.

This conversation is practical, faith-filled, and deeply encouraging for couples navigating today’s cultural tension together.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why division outside your marriage often creates division inside it
• How shared values matter more than shared preferences
• Practical ways to respect differences without letting them divide you
• Ground rules for healthy conflict that protect unity
• Why bonding memories are one of the most powerful tools for marriage
• How to be proactive instead of reactive in strengthening your relationship

What is one step you and your spouse can take this week to focus more on what unites you than what divides you?

If this episode encouraged you, take a moment to like, subscribe, and share it with another couple who could use it. And let us know in the comments—what helps your marriage stay united in a divided world?

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What happens when you are the one who needs to change in your marriage?

In part two of this Marriage Monthly mini-series, we shift the conversation to the spouse who knows something needs to change—and isn’t sure where to start. This episode offers encouragement, clarity, and practical next steps rooted in biblical truth, personal responsibility, and hope for the future.

Marriage is one of God’s greatest tools for growth, and even the hardest seasons can lead to restoration, deeper connection, and renewed trust.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why daily recommitment is the foundation of real change
• How to stop fixating on the problem and start seeing the future
• What it looks like to move from good intentions to real action
• Why accountability matters—and how to choose it wisely
• How celebrating small wins can rebuild trust and joy over time

Bible Verses Mentioned:

• James 1:2–4
• Luke 9:23
• Song of Solomon 8:6–7
• James 1:22
• Genesis 2:24
• Ecclesiastes 9:9

If you’re feeling discouraged, ashamed, or overwhelmed by the work ahead, this episode is a reminder that change is possible—and worth it. God is not finished with you or your marriage.

💬 Question for you:
What is one small step you can take this week to move toward change?

👉 Call to Action:
Like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement today.
Leave a comment and tell us what step you’re committing to next.

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Does it feel like you’re waiting… and waiting… for your spouse to make a change?

Maybe it’s a job decision, a health issue, an addiction, or something you’ve talked about a hundred times. This month’s episode is all about your side of that frustration—what to do, how to stay grounded, and how to walk through this season with faith, patience, and strength.

In Part 1, we speak directly to the spouse who is watching, waiting, and hurting… but still wants to honor God, love their spouse well, and approach this season with wisdom.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How to recommit your heart and remember your marriage vows
• Why praying until your heart softens is essential
• How to reassure your spouse without enabling unhealthy patterns
• How to have the hard conversation the right way (not the angry way)
• Why you should champion your spouse, not control them
• The role boundaries and consequences must play in real change
• How spiritual growth can create a gap—and how God bridges it

Key Scriptures Mentioned

• Ephesians 4:2 – Be humble, gentle, patient, bearing with one another in love
• Ecclesiastes 5:4–5 – Fulfill the vows you’ve made before God
• Matthew 19:6 – What God has joined together, let no one separate
• 1 John 4:18 – Perfect love drives out fear
• Song of Solomon 8:6 – Love is as strong as death
• Philippians 4:6–7 – Present your requests to God with thanksgiving
• Ephesians 4:15 – Speak the truth in love
• Proverbs 27:6 – Wounds from a friend can be trusted
• James 1:19 – Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger
• Galatians 6:1 – Restore gently
• Philippians 2:3–4 – Value others above yourselves
• Proverbs 4:23 – Guard your heart

Discussion Question for You

What’s one step you can take this week to champion—not control—your spouse as they work through something difficult?

Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear from you!

Call to Action

👍 Like this episode

💬 Comment below with how this encouraged you

🔔 Subscribe for next month’s Part 2

❤️ Share this with another couple who could use the encouragement

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How do you rebuild spiritual connection in your relationship? In this month’s Marriage Monthly, we unpack why spiritual intimacy is foundational for a thriving marriage—and how to rekindle it when you’ve drifted. From the Bible’s vision of “one flesh” to practical rhythms like prayer, worship, serving, fasting, and forgiveness, this episode gives you a hopeful path back to unity.

Discover:

• Why spiritual oneness is part of God’s original design for marriage
• The “bank account” effect of daily deposits (humility, grace, forgiveness)
• What usually breaks spiritual connection (distraction, division, different priorities, discouragement)
• Research-backed benefits of spiritual intimacy (less conflict, more warmth, humor, and cooperation)
• Gentle ways to invite a hesitant spouse (influence without pressure)
• Simple, weekly practices to grow closer: pray, attend church, read Scripture, serve, fast, walk in gratitude
• How to personalize your spiritual rhythms (no one-size-fits-all)

Key Points Discussed:

• •Sexy is serving Jesus”—why consistent service builds safety and trust
• “Leave and cleave” = covenantal, spiritual, emotional, and relational unity
• Drifting is usually slow: spiritual neglect precedes relational distance
• Invitation beats pressure—lead with example, prayer, and patience
• Five next steps: pray before leaving the house, attend church together, ask “Where is God stretching us?”, read Scripture before bed, serve together this week

Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Genesis 2:24; Mark’s reiteration of “one flesh”
• Ecclesiastes 4:12 (cord of three strands)
• Psalm 34:5
• Colossians 3:14–15
• 1 Peter 3; 1 Corinthians 7 (unequally yoked guidance)
• 1 Corinthians 13; Song of Solomon

When was the last time you felt spiritually in sync as a couple—and what small step could you take this week to rebuild that connection?

Like & subscribe for more faith-centered marriage talks. Comment your one step for this week. Share this with a couple who needs encouragement today.

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💛 “Have you been making more withdrawals than deposits lately?” - SEPTEMBER 2025 Marriage Monthly

In this month’s episode of Marriage Monthly, we’re unpacking a powerful truth: your marriage is like a bank account. Every word, action, and attitude is either a deposit that builds connection—or a withdrawal that creates distance.

Whether you’re feeling drained or full of love, this episode will help you become more intentional about the way you invest in your spouse. Through laughs, vulnerable stories, and practical encouragement, we’ll explore how to reset the balance and love generously, just as Christ has loved us.

🧠 Discover:

• What counts as a relational “deposit” or “withdrawal”
• How unmet expectations can silently erode intimacy
• The biblical connection between forgiveness and fullness
• Why speaking the truth in love matters
• How your love language shapes your emotional “balance”
• Why the source of your deposits must be the Lord
• What to do when you feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Ephesians 4:2–3
• Ephesians 4:15
• Ephesians 4:26–27
• Ephesians 4:29
• Ephesians 4:32

💬 Question:
What’s one deposit you can intentionally make into your marriage this week?

📣 Call to Action:
👉 Like & subscribe for more real-talk about love, faith, and commitment.
📝 Leave a comment with how you’ll apply today’s message!

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🎙️ 42 Years Strong — The Secrets to Building a Marriage That Lasts

What does it take to build a marriage that stands the test of time — through addiction, recovery, dreams, disappointments, and God’s redemption? In this powerful Marriage Monthly episode, Gabe and Alyssa sit down with Steve and Julia Jordan, who share their 42-year journey of building a life together.

From meeting at age 8, to surviving deep valleys of bitterness and alcoholism, to seeing God restore their relationship and bless them with a dream home they now use for ministry — this conversation is filled with real, hard-earned wisdom for couples in every season.

Discover:

• Why keeping Jesus at the center changes everything
• How to survive and heal after deep wounds in marriage
• The role of forgiveness — for your spouse and yourself
• How your greatest trials can become your greatest ministry
• The story of building a dream home as a couple and using it for God’s purposes
• Practical encouragement for couples in dark seasons

Steve and Julia’s testimony is living proof that surrender, humility, and faith can turn the hardest chapters into the most beautiful stories.

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Proverbs 3:5–6
• Psalm 127:1
• Jeremiah 29:11

💬 Question for you:

What’s one step you can take this week to strengthen the foundation of your marriage?

✅ Call to Action:

Like & subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement!

Leave a comment sharing how you’ve seen God restore something broken in your marriage.

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🎉 30 years of marriage! In this special anniversary episode, we’re recording from the King George Hotel in San Francisco, where it all began. From sweaty wedding dresses to surprise flowers, we’re diving deep into why celebration is essential in every season of marriage.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in routine, discouraged in your relationship, or just needed a reminder to smile more together—this episode is for you. Let’s talk about why celebrating your spouse might just be the missing piece to a joyful, long-lasting marriage.

💛 Marriage started with a celebration—let’s keep it going.

Discover:

• Why celebration strengthens your connection
• The power of cheering each other on
• How to support your spouse’s passions
• Creating traditions of gratitude in your home
• Resetting the tone of your relationship with simple moments
• What research says about celebrating wins in marriage
• The spiritual side of honoring your spouse

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice.”
• Romans 12:10 – “Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.”
• 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 – “Be joyful always…”
• Galatians 5:13 – “Serve one another humbly in love.”
• Proverbs 17:22 – “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”
• John 10:10 – “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy…”

💬 Question for You:
What’s one small way you can celebrate your spouse this week?

✨ Call to Action:
Like 👍, comment 💬, and subscribe 🔔 for more faith-filled encouragement to strengthen your marriage!
Tag your spouse or share this episode with a couple who inspires you.

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“Why do we keep doing this?”
That question might be the key to unlocking a whole new season in your marriage.

In this month’s episode, we dive deep into the unseen cycles that shape our relationships—many of which we inherited, others we’ve accidentally created. From generational trauma and addiction to criticism, over-scheduling, and emotional disconnection, we unpack the spiritual and practical steps it takes to recognize and break these toxic patterns.

💬 Drawing from personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-earned lessons from nearly 30 years of marriage, we explore how couples can rewrite their story—together.

📖 Key Scripture:
Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

💡 Discover:

• How to recognize patterns that are holding your marriage back
• Breaking generational cycles of addiction, dysfunction, and trauma
• The link between emotional safety and long-term satisfaction
• Practical tools for spiritual connection and mental renewal
• The power of one bold step toward change
• King Josiah’s legacy of transformation and how it applies today

🎯 Key Takeaways:

• Every couple inherits patterns—some helpful, some harmful
• Defining your vision for your marriage is the first step
• Breaking a cycle takes awareness, agreement, and aligned action
• Community and spiritual connection are essential in the process
• One decision can start a ripple of healing for future generations

🙋‍♂️ Question for you:
What’s one cycle in your marriage or family history that needs to end—and what’s one small step you can take this week?

👉 Like & subscribe for more faith-filled marriage conversations!
💬 Leave a comment: What’s one cycle you’re breaking in your marriage?
🔗 Share this with a friend who needs encouragement today.

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Will our marriage really last? That’s the question most couples ask—whether they say it out loud or not. In this powerful episode, we unpack the top predictor of marital success based on brand-new research shared by Les Parrott at a recent marriage conference: perceived partner commitment. What does that mean, and how do you build it?

We break down the difference between commitment busters and commitment builders—everything from separate bank accounts and secrets to road trips and red lipstick moments. We share insights from 30 years of marriage, including personal stories, scriptures, and the hard lessons we’ve learned the long way. Whether you’re just starting out or decades in, this episode will encourage you to build the kind of marriage that lasts—one built on intentional, everyday commitment.

💡 Discover:

• What “perceived partner commitment” actually means
• The marriage triangle: passion, intimacy, and commitment
• 6 commitment busters to watch out for
• 8 commitment builders that create lasting love
• How to protect your marriage from separation, secrets, and criticism
• How shared memories, empathy, and sacrifice keep couples close

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:
Mark 10:7–9 – “Let no one split them apart.”
Philippians 2:3–5 – “Be humble…have the same attitude as Christ.”

💭 Question for You:
What’s one way you can show your spouse your commitment this week?

❤️ Call to Action:
Leave a comment and let us know how you’re building commitment in your marriage. Like & subscribe for more episodes to help your marriage grow strong!

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In this episode, we’re joined by our friends, Steve and Lori Barker, to talk about the challenges of balancing a busy marriage and life filled with parenting, careers, and everything in between. From juggling schedules, prioritizing each other, to how they make time for their dreams and personal growth, Steve and Lori share their insights and experiences on maintaining a strong relationship through life’s busiest seasons. We also dive into how they integrate their faith and stay connected through it all, offering practical advice on how to stay grounded and emotionally healthy while managing a hectic life. Whether you’re parenting, in a busy season, or just trying to figure out how to prioritize your spouse while managing the chaos, this episode is packed with wisdom and relatable stories.

Key Points:

• Strategies for balancing marriage, kids, and busy careers
• How to keep your marriage strong in the midst of life’s demands
• The importance of being a cheerleader for your spouse’s dreams
• How setting boundaries, like family schedules and tech-free time, can bring peace
• Practical ways to stay emotionally connected while parenting and working
• The value of prayer and supporting each other through challenges

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