We either live with a selfless person who would give you the world or we live with a selfish son of a bitch who thinks only about themselves and cares a less about you! Take a good look at yourself and the relationship you find yourself in, is it as rosy as you paint it to the world or are you just fooling yourself.  It takes courage, strength and will power to get yourself out of the abusers control and I hope to give you that courage!!