Relationships & More

Touch deprivation is also known as touch starvation OR Skin HUNGER. It occurs when you're not receiving physical touch from other living beings, especially from the ones you LOVE.

Amigos and Amigas touch on!! Doing so will get you in a wonderful mood, your feelings of irritability start to fade away, your happier and you depression state starts to wind down and your whole body just tingles in happiness.

Let's talk about that kinkiness in you! Research makes it clear that people who are secure in their relationship are more likely to talk about intimate topics and experience fulfilling sexual lives.  On the other hand, those who worry excessively about their relationship and a parners reaction on a fun, lovely kinky move will always struggle with communicating their true desires. Fears of rejection or of hurting a partner may make it tough to say you don't like certain things in the bedroom, you want to try something new a little on the kinky side, or you're unhappy with frequency. Worries about your partner's reaction could also make it hard to be direct! Assumptions about what your parner may think and what their behavior may be like are unhealthy amigos you must communicate your desires and go for it! Remember this "Your partner cannot read your mind" so being up-front about your needs and desires is a far more effective way to get what you want than hoping your parner can read your mind. It's also especially important to pick the right moment to talk to your parner.

I always stress in my shows to communicate with each other, have respect for one another and to be passionate about everything that you do, and I cannot stress enough the words communicate and respect! Enjoy the show and please reach out to [email protected]

Be brave, be all that you can be and join me on my show.  We can do this many ways, by telephone, skype or in person.  Jump out of that shell and let loose your wildest desires. LET IT GO BABY!!

What a great reception on the ten fetishes discussed on the last show. So, amigos we will visit FETISHES again, I'm going to have to break them down because there are so many out there! I do need your help so please reach out to the [email protected] 

Let's chat! Remember you don't even have to truly identify yourself you can be whoever you want to be period! Don't be shy to express what feels good to you, what makes your body go into ecstasy, what makes you bite your lower lip, makes you shiver with joy to the point of fainting!

Let's talk amigos, the frekenrican is waiting to entertain your wildest dreams of fun and adventurous sex! To many of us out there silent on what our true needs of satisfaction are, stop it, life is too short! Ladies let it be known what you truly love because this isn't the 60s 70s or 80s It's freaking 2022 WAKE up BABY or what you're seeking may soon be gone! 

Wax play try it, you will love it! Candle play, Ice play, a little spanking, whatever turns you on, just get downright kinky with it and have fun!! How about them fetishes do you have any? let's explore ten of the most common sexual Fetishes and kinks that turn people on, I will break them down. Foot Fetish, Impact/sensation play, Role play, psychological play, Voyeurism/Exhibitionism, restraint play, Anal play, Sex with other People, Non- Human Entities and Fetish Objects

What if people were given permission to feel OK for just a moment, about the things that aroused them, even if they weren't considered perfectly mainstream?

The bottom line is you should feel very OK about what turns you on! Communicate with your partner what desires you have and if they are a good partner, they should accommodate.  There's always going to be the risk to being vulnerable and sharing a sexual fantasy with a partner, because you aren't sure how it's going to be received this, though, is exactly why it's so important to start with a foundation of building a sex- positive culture in your relationship." And if your partner doesn't feel the same way as you do about SEX, it's not necessarily the end of the world! The normal sex that you enjoy together should continue. Amigos any questions Ideas, please shoot me an email @ [email protected]. Want to join me for a show, bring it!

So happy to be back on the mike, I really did not have anything to chat about when I started recording just wanted to say thank you to everyone who reached out checking in to see if I was still on it. I did get into the dating sites and how fucked up a good majority of them are.

They should be called get pussy sites, instead of dating sites! The stories I get from women on such dating site is that the men they get to meet are interested in one thing only and that is to get the cookie. They will tell you what you want to hear and make all the right moves just to get that prize! So, ladies look out! Unless you yourself want to play the game then go for it, just be safe. We all know it's more fun when your naughty.

Any comments or stories you would like to share please send your email to: [email protected]

When you've been together with someone for a little bit, be it married or boyfriend & girlfriend, living life, loving one another, and sharing life's journey as one in the beginning everything is beautiful, sweet, nice but after a while some of the good things start to slowly fade away. Doing things together starts to falter and before you know it completely disappears! Why? 

Let's start with the routines of life taking control of your life, and the easy fix is for you to recognize what's going on, but amigos it takes two to make it work. Teamwork in a relationship helps immensely! Communicating with each other is critical to the life you both started together. So, take a listen so you can start that fire again, that passion you both had. No money no problemo, you can get creative with little or none, you just must take advantage of your immediate surroundings! Complement each other, get creative and most of all communicate! One-point amigos your house is a sex palace and you both are the high-ranking dignitary's so take advantage of every angle of it! Point # two when you get done with all that creativity go out to your car and yes, please por favor FUCK your brains out! Be a little crazy and that my friends will keep your fire lit for an exceptionally long time.  Any questions or comments, suggestions please shoot me an email @ frekenrican @gmail.com

Continuing with that magical touch we all crave from each other and wish we had more of. Staying away from the normal and STOP the routine when it comes to your sex life ( ROUTINE WILL KILL YOUR SEX LIFE!!!) Keeping it exciting and getting creative with one another is what you both need to keep the flames going strong. Do not be ashamed to share something sexually new in your sex life with your partner.  Finally, the last question you want to ask a partner is " where did you learn that at? "That is a no go just be happy with the new treat! Please forward your questions to the [email protected]

You are welcome to share your story, we can make it happen either face to face, remotely via skype or by phone.

Thank you all for listening and have a wonderful day!!

Do you miss being touched, as simple as it is to do, we go around neglecting each other daily, and all we need is to focus more on each other's simple needs often!  As simple as it is to do, a simple touch of a rub of the hand, arm or neck running your fingers through each other's hair will make your body tingle with joy. Your internal soul will smile, and your sex life will be hotter! "Remember my favorite cocktail for the bedroom"

Baby Oil!! Keep it handy and ready always. Love & love more until next time.  email: [email protected]

I will talk about my relationship with America and how I love it so.

I am a Hispanic American form Puerto Rico, and everything that I have, and poses is because of America, and I am very thankful of that!

You will hear a little of my beautiful country and the transition from leaving Puerto Rico and going to the big city of Ney York!

Enjoy and if you have any questions or comments, please shoot me an email to: ([email protected])

This episode was released a couple of weeks ago on video, the content of the video can only be seen on SPOTIFY. This one has no video so anyone can listen to it on all the other platforms. We talk about jealousy, low self-esteem, the phrase " I love you but I'm not in love with you"!

Why do some people say it and remain in the relationship! Really mind boggling!

Please enjoy watch the video when you get a chance and please email me any questions or comments to ([email protected])