After my husband passed away I struggled with taking care of myself. Some days it took everything in me to just get out of bed. Having a self-care package was not only needed for me but was necessary. It was filled with items that was centered around me and what I needed at the time. So if your having a hard time trying to figure what to do for that new widow or widower; create and send them a self-care package and trust me when I tell you they will forever be grateful for it!