Rawiri Maniapoto talks about how he discovered freedom from unforgiveness towards his father, a gang member, and the violence he had inflicted on their whanau. The rejection and anger gripped his life and influenced his unhealthy choices during his formative years stealing some opportunities in sports and education that, as a talented young person, he was offered . Forgiving his father has become a key to the man and father he has become today. Ra has worked in the youth development field in alternative education, and currently is in a leadership role as the Pou of a kaupapa Maori residential intensive rehabilitation programme (Mauri Ora -He Waka Tapu). Ra and Hira and their children have broken the proverbial cycle of violence and are raising their children in an environment of security, purpose, and faith. Ra and Phil also try to imitate the audible voice of God albeit with limited success.