Sensual Abundance

Sensual Abundance

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  • Sensual Abundance #017: Managing Your Energy Before You Create Content
    I got an email this morning from a fellow creator who accused me of copying her content. I pride myself on my originality and creativity and felt sure she had to be confusing me with someone else . I wrote back to set it straight and sadly, she is certain of her opinion :(
    It sucks to know someone thinks of me as a content thief!  Here's what's important though... I can't control what she thinks.
    I CAN control how I manage my energy around the situation.
    • I could take responsibility for her incorrect assumptions. (I didn't)
    • I could let it ruin my morning - or my whole day. (I didn't!)
    • I could shake it off and move ahead powerfully. (I did!)

      • A shower, skin care and a hot cup of coffee helped me to reset my attitude and 'shake off' the accusations and accompanying bad energy.
      This is important to be as a creator - because the the energy I bring to spicy content is going to have a long term impact on my customers.  Good energy brings customer back again and again. Crap energy does not.
      How do YOU monitor and manage your energy? I'd love to hear your thoughts and tips!
       
      16 min
    • Sensual Abundance #016: Are You Bothering Yourself With Reality?

      Hello Fellow Spicy Creators, I'm glad you found the show.

      Today I'm chatting with Mia, my Spicy Bestie 💕

      We're going to share a perspective that could be helpful to cam models - but really it's for anyone involved in any spicy work.

      I was browsing Reddit and found a post from a cam model who is feeling anger about men who come to watch and never tip - especially the viewers who send 'nasty comments'. (And we know there's a lot who do!)

      My first response is to nod with understanding and have compassion. We approach cam modeling with a desire to earn money so of course we aren't thrilled with the freebie seeking time wasters.

      Next, it's my desire to point out that it IS the reality. It has always been the reality.. It was like it when we got there and it will be like that when we're done.

      So.... to bother ourselves about it to the point of anger - well, that's our doing.

      I replied with this:

      Warning that this might come off as woo-woo. (I'm a lot woo-woo LOL!)

      We bother ourselves a lot when we resist reality. When we wish it were different, that they were different... it wastes our energy.

      When we come back to the same reality day after day and continue to bother ourselves with it, of course anger is going to build.

      When/if we can accept reality and let go of our resistance to it, we stop draining our energy and just show up to take what we can from it.

      OR we decide we will not continue to show up there and try something new ❤️‍🔥

      Is it mind bending to consider that YOU are bothering yourself with reality and you could actually choose not to?

      Listen in and absolutely add a comment if you have thoughts, ideas or suggestions!

      23 min
    • Sensual Abundance #015: Do You Feel Bad About The Love & Money?
      On today's Episode of Sensual Abundance, Mari is reading a juicy thread from the Cam Girl Problems Sub-Reddit.
      Read the original post here: Do you ever feel bad?
      To answer the OP's question myself... do I 'feel bad' when the men in my professional relationships 'fall in love' with me and give me lots of money?  Heck No 💕
      I celebrate it!  I'm doing something I enjoy, spending time with men I enjoy and I LOVE that I get paid abundantly for my time and creativity.
      Please DO go read the thread I've linked to because there is a rich conversation taking place with so much wisdom and experience being shared.
      One of the great points made is that the men who seem to be falling in love with us are often playing a role of their own choosing - acting like their besotted and lost in love is part of the experience that they crave.  It's not something you've done to them - it's an experience you've helped them create. And THAT is worth all the money they pour out for you.
      18 min
    • Sensual Abundance #014: Tapping Into Goddess Energy w/Reina Redcliff
      Welcome to episode fourteen of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and a special guest Reina Redcliff.
      In this episode, Mari chats about how Reina influenced her abundance mindset. Reina shares her journey in the world of spicy work and how embodying goddess energy has enriched her life, relationships, and work.
      Listen in as they talk about the vibration of abundance, shadow work, and the power of knowing what you truly want.
      Mari & Reina offer both wisdom and inspiration for those seeking to embrace their Goddess energy. And for more Goddess energy inspiration, be sure to listen to episode thirteen here.
      Highlights:
      • [00:03:16] – Exploring the sugar baby life, polyamory, and kinks.
      • [00:08:46] – Embracing feminine Goddess energy.
      • [00:13:31] – Embracing abundance with realism.
      • [00:14:42] – Breaking the cycle of lack.
      • [00:22:38] – Embracing divine feminine goddess journey.
      • [00:31:16] – Transactional relationships and empowerment.

        • Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
        38 min
      • Sensual Abundance #013: You Are A Goddess
        Welcome to episode thirteen of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari.
        In today’s episode, I share a bit of my journey of self-discovery and empowerment as a woman in the world of spicy work and how embracing my goddess energy has attracted abundance.
        My hope is that this episode will inspire you to embody your sensual, erotic energy and remind you of your innate goddess power!
        Highlights:
        • [00:01:01] – You are a Goddess!
        • [00:02:40] – Celebrating my “late” start (at 56) in spicy work & how abundant it has been.
        • [00:06:47] – Recent interesting experience with a gentleman.
        • [00:09:25] – Embracing abundance through demand.
        • [00:12:22] – Submissive vibe can attract abundance too.

          • Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
          17 min
        • Sensual Abundance #012: Feeling Grateful & Abundant in Spicy Work
          Welcome to episode twelve of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari.
          To kick this episode off, I reflect on the excitement and gratitude I’m feeling for 2025 and how as a 58-year-old spicy creator I’m doing exactly what I want and making a nice living leaning into my sexuality, exploring other people's sexuality, fetishes, kinks – learning what makes people tick.
          Listen in as I chat about finding joy and creativity in spicy work, addressing the challenges many face when balancing financial needs with personal boundaries and fulfillment.
          Highlights:
          • [00:04:10] – Creative passion or financial motivation?
          • [00:06:35] – Rethinking work and well-being.
          • [00:07:43] – Caller, this weekend, pushed me couple of steps beyond my comfort zone.
          • [00:10:02] – Setting boundaries over "ick" feelings.
          • [00:14:04] – Embrace curiosity and creativity.

            • Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
            17 min
          • Sensual Abundance Episode #011: Discover, Declare, and Defend Your Boundaries

            Spicy work can be light hearted and fun but we also know it can also be intensely emotional. Anytime we're engaging with another human on an emotional level we NEED our boundaries.

            And yet some of us are finding it hard to set boundaries and feel terrified about telling a customer about a new boundary.

            "If you're afraid that establishing a boundary with someone will upset somebody, that's the evidence that the boundary is needed in the first place." - Mark Manson

            This is a messy process and that's perfectly OK!

            Navigating experiences with our customers while protecting our well being is something we learn to do over time so we have to be kind to ourselves. I didn't come into this space knowing what I would be willing to do, I had to discover it along the way.

            If you've ever held back on establishing a boundary with a customer because you feared losing the income associated with them, this episode is going to encourage you.

            18 min
          • Sensual Abundance Podcast #010: Should You Pay For Help Getting Started?
            Welcome to episode ten of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari.
            In this episode, I dive into the intricacies of becoming a thriving spicy creator and the importance of bringing your whole self—mind, body, creativity, and self-love—to the table to achieve abundance.
            Guidance from an experienced sex operator friend helped me swiftly navigate the NiteFlirt platform and while I am all about getting help if you need it, I urge caution… listen in for more details!
            Highlights:
            • [00:03:45] – Seasoned (for close to 12 years now!) spicy creator friend helped me get started.
            • 00:06:49] – Verify expertise before paying for guidance.
            • [00:08:17] – Prioritize yourself for future passive income.
            • [00:08:57] – Be careful about these people.

              • Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
              12 min
            • Sensual Abundance #009: Be Your Own Number One Customer
              Welcome to episode nine of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari.
              Drawing from my 20 years of experience in the content creation space, I'll discuss how prioritizing your own projects and passive income streams can lead to both personal satisfaction and financial success in your spicy work.
              I'll share personal anecdotes about balancing client work with creative pursuits, and how this shift in mindset helped me achieve a nearly $1,000 day when earlier that day I had told a friend it wasn’t usually a busy day for me.
              Tune in to explore how you can be your own best customer and create lasting income for yourself.
              Highlights:
              • [00:04:23] – Prioritizing creativity over Niteflirt fast money.
              • [00:07:42] – A day I said isn’t usually busy turned into a $1,000 day.
              • [00:08:17] – Prioritize yourself for future passive income.

                • Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
                11 min
              • Sensual Abundance #008: Price Comparisons Can Bring Down Your Mindset
                Welcome to episode eight of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes 💕
                Today, I’m diving into a hot topic many spicy creators face — price comparisons in the adult content industry. Whether you're just starting or a seasoned pro, you've probably encountered discussions on how pricing affects us all.
                I'll share some of my journey on NiteFlirt, insights from over two decades in the online marketing space, and why I believe that someone else's low prices shouldn't impact your mindset or your success.
                Highlights:
                • [00:04:43] – Price competition didn't affect my consistent client base.
                • [00:11:01] – The way we think about prices, there's a lot that goes into it for every single individual.
                • [00:16:22] – Success isn't determined by others' pricing strategies.

                  • Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
                  23 min

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                The Sensual Abundance Podcast is going to invite you to lean into a mindset of financial strength and a sense of personal well being around all of your Spicy Work.