Distinguishing between emotions ↔ thoughts ↔ bodily sensations ↔ grasping/urge is a powerful technique in both Early Buddhism and modern evidence-based mindfulness (MBSR, MBCT, ACT, etc.).The reason it helps so much is that it breaks the automatic chain reaction that normally keeps suffering going.
(what the Buddha calls papañca – mental proliferation)
- Sensation arises (tight chest, heat in face, butterflies in stomach, etc.)
- The mind instantly labels it as an emotion (“I’m angry / anxious / ashamed”)
- Thoughts immediately pile on (“He shouldn’t have said that… I always mess up…”)
- Grasping / aversion kicks in (urge to attack, hide, ruminate, drink, scroll, etc.)
- The whole loop feeds itself and lasts minutes, hours, or days → suffering.
When you cannot tell these four layers apart, the process feels like one solid, real “I” that is angry/anxious. It feels undeniable and permanent.
The Normal Chain That Keeps Us Stuck