Outline Holiness in marriage Holiness by marriage Introduction When Lynn and I got married, we asked our pastor to not skimp on the preaching of God’s word and give us a full sermon. We still remember the points of that sermon. He spoke about the purpose of marriage and had 4 ‘P’s to answer. Marriage is for procreation, partnership, pleasure and perfection. It is this last purpose of marriage, perfection that we will be considering this morning. Paul has commanded husbands to love their wives, v25. This action is not self-determined and defined but Paul tells us Christ’s self-giving in sacrificial love is the example we are to follow, v25. In v26 Paul points out that Christ did His immeasurable act of sacrifice because He sought to sanctify Himself a bride. Christ’s purpose is saving us was to make us a holy people for Himself, as Paul says in another place, ‘who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works,’ Titus 2:14. Listen to this emphasis carefully, this will determine the shape of our message this morning. Jesus suffered to make us holy. He began this process of making us holy by washing us with the water of the word, v26. When we heard the word of truth, when we heard that we are sinners who cannot cleanse ourselves from sin, or even stop sinning, and that God offers us a new legal status being willing to offer us the gift to dress us in Jesus righteousness, we believed the God who cannot lie and we trusted in the free gift. God washed us, He gave us a clean slate, He planted us in His Son who now represents us with...