We often make friends with those who are similar to us. So often, cultural, historical, racial, and economic differences divide us, but sometimes, the richest gifts are found in friendships with those who are different from us.
On Sunday, Janice Young shared an unusual and personal story of unexpected friendships with the Nuxalk First Nation in Bella Coola.
Her story began 140 years ago when her Norwegian great-grandfather came to BC to collect cultural treasure for the Ethnological Museum in Berlin. The story she heard as a child about an adventurous and courageous explorer and collector began to shift when as an adult she realized that her ancestor had contributed to the harm and loss of culture experienced by First Nations people in Canada after European contact.
Seeking to find a way to create a better relationship with the Nuxalk Nation, Janice, with the help of the Rev. Donna Dinsmore and the United Church congregations in Bella Coola, made a visit in 2017 to Bella Coola with ten members of the Peninsula United Church congregation to listen, learn and speak the truth about her ancestors. That visit opened a path to grace-filled opportunities, more friendships, and witnessing and celebrating the repatriation of a Totem Pole from the Royal BC Museum to the Nuxalk Nation.
Janice is now working with her Norwegian cousin to find a way to help bring the Nuxalk cultural treasures home from Berlin to Bella Coola, hopefully in their lifetimes. Janice has been on a journey to bridge the gap between these treasures and the people they were taken from as part of her own work of restoration. In the process, she has found lost family members and experienced new, unexpected friendships. Her story is a reminder of how God weaves us into healing friendships across lines of difference, bringing restoration.