In our secular calendar, the First Day of Lent can fall as
early as February 4 and as late as March 10. Its occurrence this year on
February 14 has been the source of some amusement. Indeed, an email I received
this morning from the Plain-Dealer came with this subject line: "Happy
Ashentine's Day." This comedic concurrence of Ash Wednesday and Valentine's Day
has also given rise to Internet memes that look like this: [holds up three large
wooden "candy hearts'" with the following inscriptions painted on them, to look
like Valentine's Day Candy Hearts: "Repent," and "U R Dust," "Ash 2 Ash"].
What makes these images so comical is the apparent contradiction. The unspoken
implication is that Valentine's Day is a joyful holiday, while Ash Wednesday
decidedly is not. The suggestion is that Cupid conjures warm and fuzzy
emotions, while Ash Wednesday, with its reminder of our mortality, is cold and
depressing. The subtext is that Ash Wednesday, with its emphasis on sin and
repentance, has nothing to do with love. And my friends, I assure you: nothing
could be further from the truth. Much like Valentine's Day, Ash Wednesday finds
all its purpose and meaning in a loving relationship - our relationship with
God, the Source of all Love.
The hallmarks of a loving relationship are truthfulness and
trust. Those who love us are the ones who can speak truth to us, and because we
trust them, we can hear them when they speak the truth. On Ash Wednesday, the
truth is spoken to us in love. In a moment, each of you is going to be invited
to come forward to receive a reminder of this truth: that your time on this
earth is finite. That this earthly life we share is but a sojourn. To speak
plainly, today you will be reminded that you are going to die. Of course, we
all know this to be true, so you would not think a reminder would be necessary.
But this message is an eminently counter-cultural one. The world we live in
conspires to have us ignore this truth, if not outright deny it.
The ways our culture does this are subtle, and we don't
always notice them. But take, for example, the explosive growth of the
anti-aging market. As a consequence of the pandemic, and all the time we've
spent looking at our faces on Zoom, the appetite for botox is growing by leaps
and bounds among Gen Z (who are all still under the age of 30). Indeed, the
TikTok hashtag #antiageing has more than 8 billion views. Which is to say that
from a very young age, the world tells us we should do everything in our power
to mask our mortality. But today your clergy, ministers of the Gospel who care
deeply about your spiritual life, are going to send you a very different
message. We will look into your eyes and speak this truth to you in love:
"Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return."
The world wants you to forget this, but the Church invites
you today to remember that the God of love molded you from the dust. And when
your earthly pilgrimage is over, your bodies will return to that very dust
until they are remade at the day of resurrection. You will each receive a token
of this reminder in the form of cross-shaped dust clinging to your foreheads,
in the very place you were anointed with a cross on the day of your baptism.
Just like that baptismal cross, this cross reminds you that you are a beloved
Child of God. A Child of God who will return to dust, but whose density is
eternal life with a loving Creator. A truth spoken in love and marked on our
foreheads.
Then, after we have received our ashes, we will all get on
our knees, either in body or spirit, and we will pray a special confession of
sin called the Litany of Penitence. Most Sundays, we pray a general confession.
One that acknowledges in language broad and sweeping that we have fallen short
of loving God and our neighbor. But in this Ash Wednesday Litany of Penitence,
we use language vivid and precise to affirm the particular ways we have fall
short of living the great commandments. We will lift our voices together to
enumerate sins of pride, greed, and indifference. We will admit that we have
failed to offer forgiveness as freely as we're received it. That we've ignored
the depth of human suffering and denied our privilege. That we have failed to
care for our fragile island home, the earth that God entrusted to our care.
Ash Wednesday is a day to speak the truth in love. To come
clean about our shortcomings, and not just our personal shortcomings, but the
systems of oppression that are so much bigger than we are, in which we participate,
nonetheless. And by acknowledging the cosmic power of sin, we are liberated to
hear a message of profound grace and love: that our God, as the prophet Joel
reminds us, is "gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in
steadfast love." While hardly a traditional Valentine's Day custom, this
confession of our sin has everything to do with love. At the end of our Litany
of Penitence, Jeanne, a priest in the Church of God, will stand
before us and speak another truth in love: that God's mercy, compassion, and
forgiveness is poured out freely and abundantly upon us. As we leave this place
to continue our Lenten journey, we can do so unburdened by the weight of sin to
share the love we have received this day with others.
Beloved friends in Christ: Today, on this First Day of Lent,
we begin a 40-day journey together. This Sunday, that journey will take us into
the wilderness with Jesus, as he goes head-to-head with the powers of sin and
darkness. After walking faithfully together these next several weeks, our
Lenten journey will bring us to the holiest week of the Christian year. We will
follow Jesus to the Upper Room, where he will give us food and drink that leads
to eternal life. We will follow Jesus to the foot of the cross, where he will
freely give his life for us. We will keep vigil at the tomb as we mourn his
death, before joyfully greeting the empty tomb on Easter morning to proclaim
that he has conquered death forever, so we are free to live. It is the greatest
love story ever told, and today it begins with sacred truths spoken in love and
written on our hearts. Happy Valentine's Day. And blessed Lent.