Our perspective on the struggles of life affect the way we respond. When the divine presence wrestled with Jacob and asked him "What is your name?", this is really no more than a set-up, a way for God to rename Jacob ("supplanter, deceiver") to Israel ("he who wrestles with God"). When God names us, God is claiming authority over us. Our response is to simply surrender, to acknowledge that we belong to no one but God. Genesis 32:22-28.