Jesus Eats with Sinner by Sieger Köder (2015)
Pentecost+11 2025 – Bearing Fruit
Dr. Christiopher Graham
Colossians 3:18-4:1
In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
How are we to be shaped this morning by the 142 words, the nine verses that Sherry read from Colossians chapter 3 verses 19 to 4:1 for us. More specifically, how are we to be shaped by those six verbs: submit, love, provoke not, obey, work heartily, treat justly and fairly.
When I told my friend and colleague that I was preaching on this passage, a man who I respect very much for his homiletical skill, which is just a fancy way to say he gives really good sermons. When I told him that this was my pass passage, he chuckled.
Then he said, “You’ve just got to steer into it.” If you’ve ever taken a driver’s instruction course, then you remember these words as the instructions you give to someone when they find themselves in a potentially life-threatening skid. Having lived in Vermont for five years, I can attest to the fact that the words work, but you can’t overthink them, you can’t think too hard why it actually works.
You just have to trust the advice, because it’ll keep you on the road. And I believe that my colleague’s advice is wise for us this morning if we want to be shaped by just these words this morning. Of course, it feels more intuitive when you’re in a skid to steer out of the skid.
It seems easier in the same way to take and avoid the words that we have before us this morning to avoid Paul’s words. In fact, maybe some folks actually read what Father Doug sent out and aren’t here this morning because they’re avoiding these words. I don’t know.
I’ll let Father Doug ask them. In fact, there are well worn strategies that preachers, teachers, and readers use to avoid hearing just these words. I want to share three of those strategies this morning so that you know that I am committed to not using these strategies.
Because I don’t think they’re helpful in letting us be formed by just these 142 words in 9 verses. First, I will avoid the temptation to take us to another of Paul’s letters. There are times when it’s entirely appropriate to go to other books and letters of Paul to help us understand a given passage.
Father Doug did this several weeks ago when looking at in Colossians, the brief verse that deals with us as the body of Christ. And in Colossians, it just gets a verse. But in 1 Corinthians and Ephesians, it gets an extended treatment, and so Father, Doug helpfully took us there to help us better understand it in Colossians.
So there are times when it’s appropriate, but not this morning, because typically, we would go to other letters this morning to avoid these words, submit, love, provoke not, obey, work heartily, treat justly and fairly. We would go to other passages in Paul’s letters where he applies these words to everybody, or he applies them to both sides equally, but not here. Here he gives these specific words to specific people, wives, husbands, fathers, bond servants, or slaves, if you will, masters.
To turn into these words this morning means that we acknowledge that he has a word for us this morning with these words. I don’t know what was going on Colossae, that he just gave these words so directly without any sort of fluff to or explanation. And I don’t know why He gives these words to us this morning, but he does.
And we need to hear these words as a means to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord pleasing him in all respects. The second approach I will not take this morning is to describe what it means. For wives, husbands children’s fathers, slaves, and masters, to do these actions.
But Christopher, isn’t that actually paying attention to the words? No. That is Christopher, drawing from a very constrained perspective with a lot of biases, giving you a description and pretending that it’s universal.
And then I, if I were in your position, know what I would do, I would take my description, compare it with the other descriptions you’ve heard from other teachers and preachers. Find the one that is the most palatable to me, and then give myself to that description. And if we did that, we would be aiming at the wrong thing.
We’re not to aim at that description, or any description. We are to aim at these words and what Paul has to say to us in the book of Colossians. Finally, I will not steer out of the curve by trying to contrast the historical context of Paul with our context today.
And then to find some sort of universal principle that we can take from Paul’s words and then apply them in any given situation today. It’s a handy trick. But it’s not allowing us to hear just these words.
The fact is, I don’t know why. In God’s ordering of time, the apostles, Paul, even our Lord Himself, did not take as His first course of action, for example, to dismantle institutions like slavery. I don’t know.
But I do know that if I pretend somehow to take the principle to take the words that are given to slaves and masters and Colossians to extract some sort of principle, and then to say, well, it’s just like you submitting to your boss or me submitting to my boss, I know that this is to do injustice to Paul’s words. It’s quite possible that no one who hears my sermon this morning is in a relationship that is described as the Slave Master Bond relationship. But to principlize this so that it applies to me and my boss is to avoid the reality that there are an estimated 28 million people to date who are still in slavery.
And if they heard these words, that would mean something very profound to them. So we’re not going to take that route. Instead, we’re going to steer into the words and realize this that even as we live in the reality that Paul spoke about in the previous chapter, you remember these words from last week.
Here, there is not Greek and Jew circumcised, uncircumcised, barbarian, Scyithian, slave, free, but Christ is all and in all. Even as we live in that reality, Paul recognizes that we bear fruit even in our most intimate and even fraught relationships. Because you and I are now connected to Christ, your earthly reality changes in light of that.
We are not taken out of the messiness of life And in fact, what our passage this morning shows us is that we remain, even in the messiest of relationships and our most intimate relationships, even in these, we can walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing him, bearing fruit in every good. And so, in fact, that’s a great place to start, turning into the skid, turning into these words, is to recognize that we are in the fruit section of the letter. Of course, Reverend Burnett, Father Clint last week launched us well into this section last week.
And we would do well to remember that the description we have here, the words that we have here flow out of the words that we heard last week. There is then, a logical and literary connection between the verbs submit, love, provoke, not, obey, work heartily, treat justly and fairly, fairly, with the adjectives and nouns we heard last week, holy, beloved, compassionate, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, love, peace, and thankful. That our verbs this week are tied and should be consonant with the fruit of the verbs last week, bearing with one another, forgiving each other, teaching, and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns, and spiritual songs.
There is continuity, only because we have to divide it up somewhere for the sake of preaching, do we separation of a week between those words and these words? I do wish, though, that maybe we could have gotten a running head start into, you know, the words for today instead of just starting with submit. But that’s above my pay grade, as they say.
It would be good to remember when we encounter these words today that the very nature of fruit is to be attractive and appealing. And why? For the nourishment of those who are consuming and for the propagation of the plant.
Paul doesn’t choose his metaphors lightly. He chooses them knowing what they mean, and he knows that even the fruit of these words should be attractive and appealing. And so here’s just a question for us, as we grapple with these words in our relationships, are we bearing fruit in our relationship with each other, even our most intimate, even our most fraught relationships, in such a way that they nourish and multiply.
Are we submitting in such a way that our spouse is encouraged and in turn finds ways to submit to those in authority over them? Are we loving in ways that our spouses are built up, for example, and in turn loving others? But as we have seen time and heard time and time again through this series, perhaps maybe every sermon in this series, the fruit is not the fruit without roots.
These actions are merely actions unless they are connected to the one who is the root. Remember, Paul has said earlier in this letter, this, therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in Thanksgiving. And Paul does not let us forget, even in this section of the letter that our fruit, our actions, are a result of our connection, our communion with Christ.
Again, as Reverend Burnett pointed out last week, the words that this section, if then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above where Christ is seated at the right hand of the Father, Set that your mind on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. Here it is, for you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. And even in our passage this morning, Paul reminds us that our ultimate orientation, even in our earthly relationships, is toward Christ.
Wives, be subject to your husbands as is fitting in the Lord. Children be obedient to your parents in all things for this is well pleasing to the Lord. Bond servants, with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.
Whatever you do, do your work heartily as for the Lord. It is Christ, the Lord whom you serve, and to masters, you, too, have a master in heaven. At our most fundamental level, our relationship, our relationships, are governed by the reality that we are all in Christ, and we orient ourselves to and from Christ.
If we do not recognize that, if we do not focus on that, then our actions, even these actions, do not nourish and give life and multiply. They become merely transactional. I love you only as you submit to me, I submit to you, only as you love me, I obey you, only as far as you don’t exasperate me, I will not exasperate you, only in as much as you obey me.
As a child of the 70s, the 1970s, that is. I can testify to the fact that it is possible to so focus on the family that you can miss the one who gives life to the family. Without Christ as the root, without connection to the root, submission becomes merely passivity.
Love, even the most extreme forms of love, giving one’s body to be burned, giving one’s possessions to the poor, even all of that becomes noisy gongs and clanging cymbals. I promise that’s my only reference to another non-Colossian letter. “Obedience is learning simply how to kiss up, suck up for self-preservation.
Treating justly and fairly becomes meeting standards that are mandated by some regulatory body. Which leads me to my third and final point, and that is, so how are we to stay connected to the roots? The one who gives life for these actions.
Well, Paul has already told us that in the letter. The church is that which allows the fruit to draw from the roots. To make this point early in the letter, he switches quickly from the language of fruit and roots to head and body.
You’ll remember, this is what he said in chapter 2, verse 19, that from Christ, as the head of the body, the whole body nourished and knit together through its joints and ligaments grows with a growth that is from God. In fact, Paul uses this language to at that point to warn against associating and becoming dependent upon those who are not a part of the body. Because they offer a connection that does not bring nourishments and growth.
And in looking at the verse just preceding our passage, you remember, it says this and whatever you do in word or deed, do everything, in the name of the Lord Jesus giving thanks to God the Father through Him. Again, last week, Reverend Burnett ended his sermon saying this, “The result of Christ’s peace ruling in our hearts is that we might be Thanksgivers or people who live a Eucharistic life. If we live this kind of life, the gospel message about Jesus will then live in us and provide a song in our hearts that we can use to teach each other.
And we will need to be taught by each other every single day. What does it mean that we gather from the roots through the church? I think that Father Clint’s message last week and his quote here, his conclusion, point us in two directions.
First, we learn from each other. We learn from each other. We are willing to help and to be helped, to help each other discern if our actions are truly nourishing and fruitful and in concert with that which is our Lord, to help determine whether our actions are like a green apple Jolly Rancher, which are wonderful in flavor, that offer little nourishment, or really a Granny Smith.
Whether our actions are like a banana flavored Laffy taffy. Why? Or bananas.
We learn from and help each other discern what is and what is not fruit in our lives. And by the way, let me just say that this goes in two directions. It may be that there are things in our lives that are really more like the Laffy taffy and that we need to be called out on and spoken to about, it doesn’t feel like this is fruit.
And there are things that maybe be happening in our lives, I can attest, which we’ve never experienced before, and we need someone to tell us, “No, no, no, that’s fruit. That’s good. You need to you need to cultivate that.
The second way that Father Clint’s words last week point us to how we stay connected with the plant and therefore to the roots is in referencing the Eucharistic life. And in this, he pointed us to a way that the church keeps us connected to the root or to the head. Our interaction with each other in the liturgy and on the Lord’s Day, our service to and before God.
You see, when we hear God’s Word from our brothers and sisters, from the Old Testament and New Testament, when we hear those words read aloud, we can hear them and respond to them. We can hear Sherry this morning say those words from Isaiah and the words from Salvation, and we can be reminded that even when some of our earthly relationships fail, there is a God who is a just God, who is our refuge. And we can respond and take comfort in that.
We can hear others in the confession, even as we join with them, to confess that we have not submitted or loved, or obeyed, or worked heartily, that we have provoked or exasperated. When we come together, we can hear Father Doug and Father Les offer the words of absolution and comfort, and we are recipients of the Masters mercy. Grace and comfort, When Jeff, Stephanie, or Gail, say the words, Christ’s blood shed for you, we have communion with our Lord. who submitted to the Father’s will, so that he could love us to the end. who, taking the form of a servant, did not come to be served, but to serve.
We have communion with that, Lord. When you take my hand and say, “Pace, you manifest Christ peace in my fraught, complicated, dizzying world. Each time we gather, that is, we place ourselves in a position where we may be filled with the knowledge of his will, in all spiritual wisdom and understanding.
So as to walk in a manner worthy of a Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God, we find ourselves in a place being strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, and giving thanks to the Father who is qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints of light.