Every family has that one person whose mood sets the tone—and for us nieces, it was Ruth. Her presence could make or break a gathering, and as kids, we didn’t question the tension. But looking back, the “family dinners” felt more like staged performances, with Ruth barking orders like a drill sergeant over optional snacks. This episode unpacks the quiet tyranny behind family rituals, the fear around a dinner table, and the rare moment someone finally stood up to her.