With the amount of ease this episode brought me it is actually hilarious that I was remotely nervous to approach the topic of "CONTRACEPTIVES". I have to admit that having one of my favorite persons "Boujee" with me to tackle this topic made it seamless. Boujee and I discussed; Spanking men's butt, The lack of advancement in male contraceptives, "Fucking Rich", while also deftly navigating Religion and Faith Clashing with Contraception. Thank you Boujee for an interesting episode with your unique perspectives. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode, heaven knows I did.

Welcome to 2023! In this episode I discuss Orgasms in the new year, my eventful first day of the year, grace and leeway. I also touch on the upcoming Giveaway to celebrate 3 years of podcasting as well as a new section on the podcast called "Ask Alex" Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. I hope the rest of the year is positive to you 💜

In a different universe there's a version of Alex that has a thriving custom lingerie store. On this episode join me as I delve into the different facets of Lingerie,fun fact; I have a slight obsession with pretty lingerie so putting together this episode was a no brainer. With the holiday spirit Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode, also do not hesitate to share it with your favorite people this holiday season.

The idea that the older one gets the less sex one should experience because with age comes a certain asexuality has always rubbed me the wrong way. With my birthday approaching I discuss how age can affect our sexual choices and how embracing that can be a good thing. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.

From Childhood I've lived in a world where shame rules the vagina and as a child It seemed ridiculous but as an adult I find it maddening. On this episode I discuss the unspoken rules that vulva owners have to go through, the weird fads and trends as well as the maintenance culture that we seemingly have to uphold when it comes to perfecting the Vagina/Vulva. So light one up or pour yourself a drink as we delve into Pussy Problems

Even with my microphone breaking down mid record, rain falling expectedly I still decided to put out this episode. Sexual Health Awareness is incredibly important and in this episode I share some personal experiences with STI's. This is quite a vulnerable and not so fun episode so definitely light one up or pour yourself a drink

Sexual fantasies can sometimes feel like a taboo or some sort of cheat code, on this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I tackle sexual fantasies, the guilt and how to deal with that as well as introducing sexual fantasies to your partner. It can get somewhat nerve wracking trying to get your partner to help make your fantasies a reality do I added a little guide to help as well. This episode was really interesting to work on so light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.

It's a wonderful time in existence where we have so much options to explore in term of sexual aids so it's sort of baffling to me when I meet people who are ashamed, embarrassed or angry that they need lube with their partners to enjoy sex. If you enjoyed a previous episode of #SexandSativawithAlex titled "WAP: A DISSERTATION ON A BLACK WOMAN'S SEXUALITY" then think of this episode as an extension with a different point of view. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.

Debunking myths relating to sex is one of my favorite things to do on this podcast and it was interesting to dive into Biases I previously held regarding oral sex. On this episode I explore the basic, absurd and somewhat thought provoking notions that one might just believe about oral sex. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.

Welcome to Season 5 and I'm kicking things off by discussing sexual Expectations and how holding on to those expectations leave one having mediocre if not bad sexual experiences, unlearning these expectations also made its way into this episode and I do hope those solutions help. Season 5 is going to be amazing, so light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.