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In this second part of the trilogy, we explore what happens when something meant to be play—joyful, exploratory, connective—becomes something else: possession.
Why do we attach ownership to sex? Why is betrayal defined only by physical acts? And how did society decide that sexual freedom threatens love rather than deepens it?
Drawing on history, psychology, and culture, this episode unpacks the origins of possessive sexuality—from patriarchal systems to religious shame—and how those ideas shaped our sense of self-worth, jealousy, and belonging.
We’ll also touch on non-possessive, matriarchal cultures like those imagined in The Clan of the Cave Bear series, which remind us that sex can exist as mutual exchange, not ownership.
This episode asks:
For anyone who’s wrestled with jealousy, sexual autonomy, or the boundaries of commitment, this is an invitation to imagine a more liberated kind of love—one that begins with trust and curiosity.
By Whisper LoungeIn this second part of the trilogy, we explore what happens when something meant to be play—joyful, exploratory, connective—becomes something else: possession.
Why do we attach ownership to sex? Why is betrayal defined only by physical acts? And how did society decide that sexual freedom threatens love rather than deepens it?
Drawing on history, psychology, and culture, this episode unpacks the origins of possessive sexuality—from patriarchal systems to religious shame—and how those ideas shaped our sense of self-worth, jealousy, and belonging.
We’ll also touch on non-possessive, matriarchal cultures like those imagined in The Clan of the Cave Bear series, which remind us that sex can exist as mutual exchange, not ownership.
This episode asks:
For anyone who’s wrestled with jealousy, sexual autonomy, or the boundaries of commitment, this is an invitation to imagine a more liberated kind of love—one that begins with trust and curiosity.