Jessica is a fat burlesque dancer, fat pole dancer and awesome fat women who was at our sex-cation with Swingset Takes Desire in Cancun this fall!

We talk about:

• Coming out as bisexual.
• You can just have sex with women and not necessarily date them and that's ok!
• Event drop. It's real yo'!
• Having a sad.
• Being all in at the resort
• Other sex positive resorts and getting comfy being naked in a fat body.
• Finding a sexy resort for the first time!
• Dieting eats your life, time, energy and effort.
• "If only" with dieting – before being "fat"
• Fat pole dancing!
• "Comparison is the thief of joy!"
• Moms that's diet and how that is.
• Food policing
• Finding clothes
• Periods of low libido
• Married and opening your relationship
• Transitioning into polyamory
• Work playing havoc with your libido
• Relationship dry spells
• "being valued as a human being makes a huge difference in whether you feel turned on"
• Talk ab out being awkward.
• Talk about gang bangs
• And a gang bang with no penetration!