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Okay, THIS is where the initial error lives...in this episode I talk about the first structural error most women learn in their sex education....the assumption that our pleasure should behave like a man’s.
When women are taught to model their bodies after a linear, goal-based orgasm pattern, pleasure becomes something to monitor and evaluate instead of embody! What often gets labeled as numbness, low desire, or difficulty orgasming is not a personal failure, but a nervous system response to the wrong framework.
This episode is about learning that the map needs correcting and offering a re-orientation that changes how women relate to their bodies, their pleasure, their orgasm and themselves.
If you’d like a place to begin exploring pleasure education, I created a free starting point here:
https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/free-offer
If you’ve been listening and feeling something shift, this page exists to support that:
https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/start-here
Keywords:
female pleasure, women’s sexuality, orgasm education, sex ed, nervous system, sex education for women, orgasm awareness, embodiment and pleasure, female arousal, sexual confidence for women, feminine pleasure, women’s arousal patterns, pleasure and safety, orgasm myths
By Nikki Jennifer5
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Okay, THIS is where the initial error lives...in this episode I talk about the first structural error most women learn in their sex education....the assumption that our pleasure should behave like a man’s.
When women are taught to model their bodies after a linear, goal-based orgasm pattern, pleasure becomes something to monitor and evaluate instead of embody! What often gets labeled as numbness, low desire, or difficulty orgasming is not a personal failure, but a nervous system response to the wrong framework.
This episode is about learning that the map needs correcting and offering a re-orientation that changes how women relate to their bodies, their pleasure, their orgasm and themselves.
If you’d like a place to begin exploring pleasure education, I created a free starting point here:
https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/free-offer
If you’ve been listening and feeling something shift, this page exists to support that:
https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/start-here
Keywords:
female pleasure, women’s sexuality, orgasm education, sex ed, nervous system, sex education for women, orgasm awareness, embodiment and pleasure, female arousal, sexual confidence for women, feminine pleasure, women’s arousal patterns, pleasure and safety, orgasm myths