Sex In The Univercity

OMG Hey… Didn't see you there… *blushes* **tucks hair behind ear seductively**

Yes we're back with episode 2 - yes it's a month late (you were warned). The incredible Sohae (she/her) and I have a chat about a whole lot of interesting things: COVID situationships, men being terrified of intimacy, the Homosexual Dress Code, the weird dynamic between labels & sexual identity, as well as so much more.

As always, thanks for listening! Love above all else <3

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity

Once upon a time... there was a podcast... called Sex In The Univercity... that had one season but now has two... WOAHHHHHHH!!!!!!

On today's episode with my dear friend Liv, we get into the nitty gritty regarding high school sex ed drama, the female orgasm, the healing power of gay sex, centering pleasure in any sexual experience, compulsive heterosexuality, and literally so much more. 

Thanks for listening! Love above all else<3 

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity

HEY THERE! Long time no see!

Though recorded a few months ago (Jonathan's Version) (From the Vault), I just couldn't let 2021 go by without dropping it. Special guest and SHAPE member Sydney and I chat about lots, including but not limited to: Dating apps, porn preferences, gray areas in the talking phase, and the c-word (communication). 

Thanks for listening! Love above all else <3

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity 

GREETINGS! 

I hope this podcast episode finds you well. Literally a million years ago (in the month of August), I hoped on a zoom call with recent Northwestern Alumni, long term aspiring stand-up comedian, and former The*tre Major Rishi Mahesh (he/him). You may know him as @Rishipuff on Twitter! 

We chatted about a whoooole lot of things, including but not limited to: what it was like to grow up in a household where sex was considered taboo, how to get creative while asking for consent, myths about body counts in high school, and the relationship between Tumblr and the female orgasm. We hope you enjoy!! :) 

Love above all else!

-JVDL

Contact by email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity

BACK BACK BACK BACK BACK AGAIN!!!

We also discuss our totally real and not made up thesis work done on the concept of Gay Puberty<3 If you have no idea what that is then you MUST listen to the Ep<3 Or else <3 

Love above all else!

-JVDL

WWHOOOOOOOO We're literally back hahaha unintentional summer break check am I right. 

So happy to present to you this incredible episode that I may or may not have recorded literally over a month ago the first week of July hehe <3

I am so excited to have Sully on to talk about their experiences with turning to the internet when there were no other avenues to talk about sex! Links to the videos that come up in conversation as well as other videos that Sully was kind enough to recommend are linked below for your own personal exploration <3 

Love above all else!

-JVDL 

Stereotypical coming out videos:

Troye Sivan: https://youtu.be/JoL-MnXvK80

Ingrid Nilsen: https://youtu.be/Eh7WRYXVh9M

Aaron & Austin Rhodes's "Twins Come Out To Dad": https://youtu.be/L3K0CJ8usPU

Vids that break the mold:

Abigail Thorn (Philosophy Tube)'s "Identity: A Trans Coming Out Story": https://youtu.be/AITRzvm0Xtg

Daniel Howell's "Basically I'm Gay": https://youtu.be/lrwMja_VoM0

Other coming out videos I failed to mention:

Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints)'s "Shame": https://youtu.be/K7WvHTl_Q7I

Alayna Joy's "The wedding is off. | Coming Out Again": https://youtu.be/Nl_Ja4_7Rfo

Evan Edinger's "My Sexuality": https://youtu.be/I41cBuTMhDo

Phil Lester's "Coming Out to You": https://youtu.be/UqXFKSWniVU

Hannah Witton's "The Truth about Sexual Desire": https://youtu.be/XDOS6TwbPAc

Other sex-ed/LGBTQ+ YouTubers doing great work:

Kat Blaque: https://youtu.be/GCBMNVsvKrg

Khadija Mbowe: https://youtu.be/0EF1W91hfDQ

Jackson Bird & Ash Hardell: https://youtu.be/hcKZ2dxumgk

Dutchy: https://youtu.be/B3fYDikvs_E

Part 2 of our 2 part episode with Matthew Liu!!!!! Remember the last episode that you just listened to? It's kind of like that but more. The second half, one might say. In this episode, content warning: We get into the L word of it all - L o V e eeee!! Obviously, before that, we talk about a lot more about really fun awkward trauma hook-up stories <3 because YAY <3 But we also talk about: How is it that long term relationships change our relationship to casual sex??? We also talk about what it can be like to merge your family life and your love life, as well as drop some little nuggets of wisdom along the way

Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity

On November 5th, 2020, Matthew Liu tweeted: "Anyways I have a bf and am happy and regularly achieve my goals."

On March 17th, 2021, Matthew Liu tweeted: "Northwestern university done - easiest shit of my life." 

On June 13th, 2021, Matthew Liu tweeted: "First happy gay man to graduate college."

We on this day are very grateful to have the mind behind these glorious tweets as a guest on our podcast!!!! We talk about how complicated coming out to family can be, how weird is it to engage with straight people while you are going through gay puberty, whether or not Christmas is a gay holiday, what it's like to go on dating apps in college, and so many more nuanced, funny, and emotionally resonant things. How does one walk down this road that leads to happiness and ease of life experience?? LISTEN TO FIND OUT!!!!! 

Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity

I HAVE CELEBRITIES ON THE PODCAST!!!!!! WHat?!?!?

This week on the pod I am floored and honored to have Emilio Cabral (he/him) and Olivia Pierce (she/her) as guests!! We talk about a whole lot of things, ranging from growing up in conservative suburbs, to how coming out is much more of a long term process than people think, to what kind of queer love stories we would like to see more of in the world, advice for parents and queer youth who are working through their identity, and ever more!

Link to Long Distance by Moyana Olivia, available NOW on Spotify!!!! 

https://open.spotify.com/album/4WkDQ66gwT8p7LxgUQxGb6?si=SgIZExnRRPCpf_47lzl7-w&dl_branch=1

Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity

GAy! gaY! GaY! 

Fun fact: A lot of people are gay. Hopefully if you are 4 episodes into this podcast that shouldn't come as a surprise to you, since it's kind of our whole thing. Today I chat with NU Twitter Gay and recent graduate Patryk Kot (he/him), who famously once told me "I once hooked up with a frat boy and it was terrible", about his (NOT CLICKBAIT) 'Love, Simon' tattoo, his thoughts on queer representation/coming out stories, how growing up in a homophobic town shaped his relationship to intimacy and sex, and how a lot of the stylized versions of sex we seen in the media are nothing like how things tend to go down in real life.  

Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else <3 

-JVDL

Contact by Email: [email protected]

Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity