Why do we still know so little about female anatomy and the clitoris, even in modern medicine? In this episode, I speak with Anita Brown-Major, member of the International Cliterati Committee and director of Thrive Rehab, about the shocking gaps in research surrounding women’s sexual health and pleasure. We explore the anatomy of the clitoris and vulva, why sexual response is far more complex than people realise, and how diversity in female bodies is completely normal. Anita also explains non-concordant arousal, what happens in the body during unwanted or unwelcome touch, and why context, consent, safety, and nervous system responses are critical to understanding female sexuality. This is a fascinating conversation about science, pleasure, anatomy, consent, and the ongoing invisibility of women’s bodies in research.

Host: Lauren Muratore

Guest: Anita Brown-Major | ⁠https://www.thriverehab.com.au

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What do sexual fantasies really mean—and why do so many people feel shame around them? In this Season 3 opener, fantasy expert Artemisia de Vine unpacks the psychology of desire, erotic imagination, and the hidden role fantasies play in intimacy and self-discovery. We explore how the ego often resists vulnerability, why letting go can lead to deeper sexual connection, and how fantasies can reveal both our fears and our unmet needs. Artemisia shares her radical perspective on shame, desire, and erotic authenticity, explaining why trusting your fantasies may actually help you reconnect with your truest self. This episode is a fascinating deep dive into sexual fantasy, consciousness, vulnerability, pleasure, and the psychology behind great sex.

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Artemisia de Vine | ⁠https://www.artemisiadevine.com/Sexual-Fantasy-Coaching-and-Courses

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What are women really looking for when they seek intimacy, companionship, or connection through an escort service? In this Season 2 finale, I speak with Anna Grosman, founder and director of Her Confidant, an escort agency designed around women’s needs, safety, and emotional comfort. We explore the changing landscape of sex work, the rigorous vetting and consent processes behind ethical companionship services, and why more women are becoming open about their desires, loneliness, curiosity, and intimacy needs. This conversation challenges assumptions about escorting, female sexuality, emotional connection, and the future of modern relationships and sex work.

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Guest: Anna Grosman | https://herconfidant.com.au/

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Why does sex so easily start to feel like a performance, and what happens when we become trapped in our own heads during intimacy? In this solo episode, Lauren explores sexual performance anxiety, overthinking, and the pressure many people place on “getting sex right.” She unpacks why disconnection from the body can sabotage pleasure, desire, erections, orgasm, and emotional intimacy, and shares practical ways couples can reconnect through presence, safety, curiosity, and embodied intimacy. This episode is an honest conversation about letting go of pressure, quieting the inner critic, and creating sex that feels connected, relaxed, and genuinely fulfilling.

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What happens when your partner doesn’t want sex—and why does rejection so often feel deeply personal? In this episode, we unpack the emotional impact of mismatched desire, sexual rejection, and the stories people tell themselves when intimacy changes in a relationship. You’ll learn how to stay connected to your sense of self-worth when sex isn’t happening, why a partner’s low desire is not always a reflection of love or attraction, and practical strategies for building emotional security, resilience, and healthier communication around intimacy. This is an honest conversation about rejection, desire discrepancy, attachment, and finding peace in the complex realities of long-term relationships.

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What is swipe culture really doing to modern dating, intimacy, and self-worth? In this episode, Treena Orchard (author of Sticky, Sexy, Sad) unpacks the emotional realities of dating apps, hookup culture, and the exhausting psychology behind endless swiping. We explore whether modern dating platforms are reinforcing outdated gender dynamics under the guise of empowerment, why dating can feel both addictive and emotionally draining, and how people can create healthier, more intentional connections online. Blending lived experience with professional insight, Treena shares practical advice for navigating dating apps while protecting your confidence, boundaries, and emotional wellbeing in today’s digital dating world.

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Guest: Dr. Treena Orchard | https://treenaorchard.com/

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What is sexological bodywork, and how can it support healing from trauma, embodiment, and sexual wellbeing? In this episode, Lorraine Pentello offers an in-depth exploration of this lesser-known modality and the profound, multifaceted work it involves. We discuss how sexological bodywork can support trauma recovery, the three phases of trauma processing, and the links between arousal, the nervous system, and embodied safety. Lorraine also draws on the work of Dan Siegel, EMDR approaches, and the fawn trauma response to deepen our understanding of how the body holds and heals experience. To close, Lorraine guides a short embodied meditation practice to help you connect more fully with your own nervous system and presence.

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Guest: Lorraine Pentello | ⁠https://lorrainepentello.com⁠/

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Do you ever find yourself unsure of what actually feels good, or how to ask for, explore, or give the kind of touch that creates real pleasure? Maybe you struggle with knowing how to be touched, how to touch a partner, or you’re simply curious about the body’s many potential pleasure zones. If so, you’re not alone..this is one of the most common themes I see in clinical practice.

In this short and practical episode, we explore anatomical pathways to pleasure and how curiosity, communication, and experimentation can open up new possibilities in your sexual experience. This isn’t about performance or doing it “right,” but about giving you a starting point to understand your own body (and your partner’s) with more confidence and creativity.

There are countless ways to explore touch and sensation, consider this your gentle introduction.

If you’d like the free guide mentioned in the episode, feel free to email me and I’ll send it through.

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What if the best sex of your life doesn’t happen in your 20s or 30s—but after 50? In this episode, Dr Linda Kirkman shares insights from her PhD research on regional Australians aged 50–60, exploring friendships with benefits, later-life intimacy, and how sexuality evolves beyond traditional expectations. We challenge conservative assumptions about ageing and desire, and explore what evidence actually shows about sex in midlife and beyond.

A key theme in this conversation is “intimacy with independence”—the idea that later life can bring greater self-knowledge, authenticity, and freedom in how people express sexuality. We also draw on the research from Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers by Peggy Kleinplatz and Dana Menard, alongside insights from senior sex educator Joan Price, to explore what truly makes sexual experiences fulfilling at any age.

This is an empowering conversation about ageing, desire, pleasure, and the expanding possibilities of sexuality across the lifespan.

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Guest: Dr. Linda Kirman: ⁠https://lindakirkman.org/

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What does it really take to build a relationship that includes more than two people; without losing intimacy, trust, or emotional safety? In this episode, Rochelle Siemienowicz and Markus Stone share their journey into kitchen table polyamory and the real-life challenges, rewards, and transformation that have come with it.

We explore jealousy in relationships, what it’s actually signalling, how to work with it rather than against it, and how it can sometimes deepen erotic connection instead of diminish it. Rochelle and Markus reflect on the evolving nature of polyamory, the emotional complexity it brings, and the ongoing conversations required to sustain it with care and integrity.

This conversation also dives into the role of communication, consent, and emotional honesty in building secure non-monogamous relationships, and how truly knowing a partner can expand both intimacy and desire.

Host: Lauren Muratore

Guest: Rochelle Siemienowicz and Markus Stone, grab the book Double Happiness ⁠⁠https://midnightsunpublishing.com/shop/books/double-happiness/

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