We talk a lot on this show about sex but sex while fun is really a means to an end in our relationships. Bonding in the bedroom leads to bonding out of the bedroom high greater affection towards each other, increased communication, and working together. I discuss in this episode a major decision my wife and I made, the results we are seeing, and how we need to work together with high levels of communication to ensure success.

In this episode, I talk about fetishes and how some are embarrassed to bring up or admit their fetishes to their partner because of fear of judgment. How to bring up BDSM in your relationship and getting BDSM started in the bedroom. Don't take the initial surprise reaction the wrong way but if you're unsure how your partner feels about BDSM bring it up slowly and don't just surprise them in the middle of sex.

One sign that politics is going too far in invading every aspect of our lives (Funny).

Why do you put limits on your relationship? If you're going to spend your life together you need to remove boundaries and actually live your life together. In or out of the bedroom, having limitations is saying that you're not really married, your just economic partners with benefits.

The limitations you place may be a result of your own insecurities and lack of confidence. That's true out of the bedroom as well. lack of confidence is unsexy and off-putting. Raise your confidence and remove your limitation, once you do you can remove the limitations in your marriage.

Answering listener questions.

Everyone wants to know the secrets to success and often disappointed by the answer. Why? They think the "secrets" are easy and effortless. In reality, it takes effort and planning. Here I discuss one tool that can help you build a happy and fulfilling marriage.

The I talk about the 7 habits of happy couples and the 12 mistakes your may be making in your sex life.

My wife was able to finally convince me to open up our accounts to get a new to us mom-mobile (minivan). She was driving a 1999 Chevy Venture up to this point. She was so happy in bed that night. I just wonder what her 19 year-old self would have thought seeing how excited she was getting a minvan.

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Searching the internet you can find all types of advice on sex and relationships, some of that advice is so horrible though you wonder if the person is trying to set you up for a fight or they have some far out there sexual fetishes.

We have seen a lot a crazy & funny things happen as a result of the CoronaVirus, but hearing NY Department of heath recommending Glory Holes and group video masturbation has be be around the top of the funniest moments of 2020.

Women have such swift mood changes that it accounts for how hard it is to figure them out. The type of behavior and jokes that turn a woman on and has them laughing one moment completely pisses them off the next. Men not only have to pay attention to past interactions but document what part of they cycle women were in when observing those reactions to base future behavior on.

I recently had a birthday, that meant of course that it was all about me for one day. What I wanted, how I wanted!!!!!

What happened to George Floyd was undeniable wrong, the police officers involved should be punished and are being punished/charged with murder. Everyone agrees on this and everyone agrees that reform and improvements are needed regarding instances of police brutality. Most everyone agrees with the actual protests and advocacy for reform. Despite all these agreements there is a few that are motivated to ensure we remain divided for profit and political motives. As such those people have incited and committed violence, looting, and arson. No there is an attempt to conflate the violent arsonist with the protesters and if you don't agree with the arsonist you are sided with the officer that murdered George Floyd. 

This is why problems don't get solved in the US anymore. Even on issue where we all agree we get suckered into political fights based on false narratives and false choices by bad actors or people tying to score political points who don't actually care about the problems. There is a group of people out there that need to incite violence because their entire business model is dependent on suffering and chaos. Both sides need to reject the agitators and focus on the fact we all agree that what happened was horrible, we all agree that reform is needed, and the only way to get to the solution is to actually talk and listen to each others solutions and implement them.

Some times no matter what you do or how well you plan, your kids can and will interfere with your sex life.

Men you need to be nice and grateful, get her some knee pads.

Is there a way to give him that virgin first time feel? Yes and here is why guys will love it.

After catching up on some movies I am starting to get curious if certain things work or not. I was watching Private Parts, a movie about Howard Stern. I am curious if sound-waves really could trigger an orgasm.

With everyone at home all day, the one industry that is skyrocketing is the porno industry. With that said, the one things I don't understand with porno is animated porn. How that hell can anyone find watching cartoon characters like Marge Simpson doing porn appealing.

If I could do a study on anything it would be to find out how many woman are naturally bi-sexual. Even straight women check each other out starting at another woman's butt or breasts. Unfortunately I don't think there is anyone to find out for sure if woman are naturally bi-sexual or not.