Sex on Your Terms

This week, we discuss the double standards based on gender that exist in the non-monogamous world, plus how this relates to society at large. We also discuss an interesting study about the word "clitoris" during Sex in the News! 

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Episode 19 of Sex on Your Terms explains 5 different types of attraction, and how each can manifest themselves in different ways in non-monogamous relationships. Plus, how has each type affected us in our individual dynamics, between each other and with others? 

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A new couple that has come into our lives has us questioning and discussing two of the most important qualities we assess when looking for play partners: Chemistry and connection. We discuss each, as well as the ways in which we can tell they absolutely do or do not exist when we interact with others. 

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During this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we discuss how our play style has evolved, and how getting on the road has taught us what's most important when it comes to playing with others. Plus, we chat about compatibility in the lifestyle, and how we seek it out personally. 

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Every couple has a different "sweet spot" terms of how frequently they play. As people who had very regular play partners in their hometown before hopping on the road, we've had several really meaningful discussions about how frequently we would like to be playing. But when life gets crazy, the lifestyle can often take a back seat...Hear us explain this from our perspective!

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The worlds of swinging and kink, while adjacent, don't always see eye to eye. We attempt to explain why this might be from our perspective, as well as some personal opinions on how both camps can be a little more understanding of the other. After all, shouldn't we all be able to play nice?

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It is almost inevitable for those in the nonmonogamous lifestyle to arrive at this dilemma eventually: What if someone catches feelings when they "aren't supposed to"? We ran into just such a dilemma recently, and the conversation that ensues is one of boundary-setting and transparency in nonmonogamous interactions. 

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This episode of Sex on Your Terms, Brenna and Brian discuss how their priorities have shifted in terms of what they most want in a play partner over the course of their nonmonogamous journey. They also delve into the characteristics each finds most important in a potential poly romantic interest. It's a fun listen with insights on how experience and learning can shift perspectives greatly in this lifestyle. 

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During Episode 12 of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, Brenna and Brian discuss the concept of fairness in lifestyle relationships, as well as certain circumstances in which many couples experience an inbalance in perceived fairness. Find out our recommendations for avoiding the "score board" mentality in nonmonogamous relationships!

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In the world of nonmonogamy, it's an almost certainty that you will experience "trainwreck" moments that could be labeled as failures. But seasoned lifestylers will tell you that each failure is an opportunity to learn and grow. We examine 4 of our biggest "failures" as well as the lessons we took with us into future interactions to create more pleasurable experiences for all! This and more, on Episode 11 of Sex on Your Terms!

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