3 Sex & Relationship Lessons From “Lifestyle” Couples

Couples in The Lifestyle (AKA Swingers) practice a form of ethical non-monogamy that usually involves sex play with other singles and/or couples.

In this quickie episode, Jess and Brandon discuss advice from three swinger couples who share their insights for happier relationships (and, by extension, hotter sex).

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3 Sex & Relationship Lessons From "Lifestyle" Couples

Episode 333

[00:00:00] You're listening to the sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice. You can use tonight.

[00:00:15] Brandon Ware: Welcome to the sex with Dr. Jess podcast. Dr. Jess, how are you feeling today?

[00:00:19] Jess O'Reilly: I'm feeling all right. I'm feeling good. Talk to me. Why is that? We have just disembarked the Desire Cruise, and I don't know if this was maybe number six for us in terms of Desire Cruising, but we just came off a week in Greece with one stop in Turkey.

[00:00:33] Jess O'Reilly: It was a lot of fun, but it was pretty intense.

[00:00:34] Brandon Ware: Yeah, it was intense.

[00:00:36] Jess O'Reilly: Lots of socializing.

[00:00:38] Brandon Ware: Yeah, that's an understatement. I always like to party. Oh my gosh. I can't keep up. I don't know. I gotta, I gotta tell you, I don't know how they do it. They're up at like seven in the morning and they party hard until like three in the morning.

[00:00:49] Jess O'Reilly: Is that, is that their schedule? I don't know. I'm asleep long before

[00:00:52] Brandon Ware: that. I'm, I'm, I'm impressed.

[00:00:55] Jess O'Reilly: But it's super friendly crowd. Oh yeah. Like it's so much fun while you're on, but then, you know, when you come off of something that's so highly social, at least me. Oh, I feel like a total drop. I just need to be quiet for a bit.

[00:01:07] Jess O'Reilly: Need some time to chill. Yes. Now we are also on route to Atlanta for Sex Town South via Toronto. Very excited for this. So this is definitely a quickie episode because we just don't have a lot of time. We're stopping in Toronto overnight. So that I can feed my dad and see my mom and my stepdad. Check on my plants.

[00:01:26] Jess O'Reilly: Yeah, drop off my cleats to my friend's house because I'm gonna, I need her to carry them to a tournament for me in Montreal. But what for? What are you playing? We're not talking about that right now. Okay, I play Ultimate and Brandon likes to make fun of it.

[00:01:39] Brandon Ware: Hope Adam's listening right now. Adam Maurer.

[00:01:41] Jess O'Reilly: Oh my gosh.

[00:01:42] Brandon Ware: I feel like we've bonded over this.

[00:01:43] Jess O'Reilly: Brandon calls it Frisbee. If I call it Frisbee, people who play Ultimate are going to get mad at me, but it's the least Ultimate. It's Ultimate. Anyhow, we have a short amount of time, so we are going to get in to three lessons that I learned from lifestyle couples on the cruise.[00:02:00]

[00:02:00] Jess O'Reilly: Three lessons from swingers, basically. These couples are swingers now.