Sex Society with Valerie Baber

Dr. Neil Kumar, board-certified OBGYN, came in to answer listeners questions about the mysteries of the vagina and female reproductive health. In the first of our two-part game, "Ask A Gynecologist", the doctor addresses questions about what time of month is safest to have sex and what exactly contraceptives do. He also walks us through the anatomy of a vagina, tells us what causes pain, and acknowledges the resilience of little lady bits.

Author and podcaster, Dedeker Winston, discusses the importance of battling stigma against relationship nonconformity. We cover those pesky labels and assumptions, childrearing, swinging, Christians and the APA's "push for polyamory". I question cultural "whys and what ifs" and she shares her wealth of well-researched knowledge.

Polyamorous author and podcaster, Dedeker Winston, talks about growing up in the church and her transition into living her own truth. We talk about celebrities who openly explore non-monogamous relationships, why consensual non-monogamy might appeal to "freaks and geeks", the true meaning of monogamy, and how thoughtful communication is essential for surviving in any kind of relationship structure.

Multicultural hairstylist, Mimi Miller warns listeners about falling into the seedy world she talks about in her book, Confessions From a Las Vegas Hairstylist. We cover Cardi B, life without intention, babysitting pimps, the children of hustlers, men's bizarre fetishes, the difference between squares and hos, and the importance of women making men invest in them (without earning their living from it). We end the show on the topic of respect and the power of the punani.

Award-winning hairstylist, Mimi Miller, recounts stories from her book, Confessions of a Las Vegas Hairstylist, and tells us how she moved her 3 kids from the projects in Detroit to a home in Las Vegas in search of a better life. What she found was a place in the inner circle of strippers, working girls, pimps and other hustlers who relied on her to do their hair and hold their secrets. She has thoughts about their lives and what kind of women stay safe from falling into a sordid trap.

Integrative health coach, Stas Arsinov, discusses porn as a distraction and what he might advise clients who are experiencing unhealthy sexual addictions. He establishes the importance of clarity, the job of a coach and offers some tips for making healthy changes. Everything good takes work, or "creation" rather, and he's the ideal support system to help his clients transform.

Integrative nutrition health coach, Stas Arsinov, talks about his quest for spiritual healing, getting clear on wants, needs and expectations so that dating is more rewarding, and how misused sexual energy can be a distraction from our goals.

Dancer and erotic entertainer Andy Long talks about his transformation from college grad to male stripper and lets us in on some of the sexy secrets he reveals in his book, Tales From The Strip.