Sex That Confirmed an Absence Podcast: This is a conversational podcast exploring my essay Sex That Confirmed an Absence from the book Ghosts of Sex. In the podcast we discuss how intimacy can reveal limits rather than dissolve them, the quiet moment when closeness confirms something essential is not available, and the emotional clarity that arrives without blame or rupture. We explore how sex can act as a mirror rather than a bridge, how absence becomes visible through contact, and how that recognition subtly reshapes expectation, desire, and the future of a connection.