What shaped your understanding of sex growing up? Was it a quiet conversation with a parent, an awkward health class, a warning laced with shame? For many of us—especially those raised in Christian homes—our foundational beliefs about sex were vague, fear-based, or simply unspoken. We may have heard “don’t do it until you’re married,” but little else. And the unspoken message? Sex is bad… until one day, magically, it’s good.

 

We believe it’s time to talk. This summer, we’re inviting experts, sharing real stories, surfacing hard questions, and pointing back to God’s truth. Because God cares deeply about sex. He designed it. And He wants something better for all of us.

Let’s break the silence—together.

 

Content Warning: This episode is best suited for those ages 16 and up.

 

Show notes:

 

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00:00:00 - Introduction to Summer of Sex

00:00:20 - Mature Content Warning

00:00:33 - Foundations of Sexual Awareness

00:01:32 - First Experiences with Sex Education

00:03:37 - Shame and Normalization

00:06:10 - Impact of Family Dynamics

00:09:00 - Sexual Trauma and Its Effects

00:12:50 - Navigating Sexual Relationships

00:15:04 - Body Image and Modesty

00:18:04 - Biblical Perspectives on Sex

00:20:03 - Addressing Sexual Dysfunction

00:23:55 - Commitment to Ongoing Conversations

00:25:29 - Encouragement to Ask Questions

00:28:41 - Practical Steps for Intimacy

00:30:08 - Conclusion and Next Steps