“When women don’t have a voice, everyone loses. When women don’t feel safe, they don’t want to have sex."

When I read these words, I suddenly remembered the pain I felt in the lovemaking with my two partners, I lived together. Maybe it started with my first relationship, but how ignorant was I then?

The pain became obvious in my first marriage. I felt not listened. I felt not asked.

I look back and I look at the presence. How much has really changed in the way we approach each other sexually or in the lovemaking?

LOVE is what we most care for.

Do we CONSCIOUSLY take time for it ?

And as Dave Booda writes: “ … we start playing games to coerce each other to get something we both already wanted in the first place. Welcome to the insanity of today’s culture.”