In this episode, I bring on my husband as a co-host and we have a couple-to-couple chat about life after marriage and parenthood with the hosts of the podcast Sex, Lies and Parenthood, Rachel and Mark.

We have a ton of fun and laughs in this episode as we talk about:

-finding new "firsts", 

-the most challenging things about sex when you're also parents, 

-on jealousy

-our messy stories of how we got together, 

-and more!

You can find them at the fun and real-life podcast Sex, Lies and Parenthood- "What happens when a self-confessed sex addict marries a know-it-all bitch with 24 years of experience in entertainment and they start a podcast?" These two happen! They are open and honest and you see life as it is without the filters. It's fantastic.

www.sexliesandparenthood.com

You can WATCH this episode at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=frtxWnaahcM

You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com.  Thank you for listening! :) 

Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

Heather Tucker is a Godly Marriage & Sexual Freedom Coach, Specializing in Sexless Marriages & Sexual Confidence. Yes- that's what I said!!! I am SO happy to have her on my podcast because as you know, LEAVING religion and religious beliefs is a big part of my personal and sexual growth... but she COMBINES the two, showing that you CAN be Christian/religious AND sexually empowered. 

(mind blown).

She specializes in helping people who are in sexless marriages and helps them bring the sizzle back into their marriage. I love this as it's not something people talk about but is COMMON and IMPORTANT to talk about. 

Thanks Heather for bringing your sparkle to my audience!!  

You can connect with her through:

YouTube channel:  https://youtube.com/channel/UCXElM1EyKNpGQdRK0g99rqQ   

Clubhouse @sexcoachheather  

Insta @heathertuckermotivates  

Christian Wives Support Group  https://www.facebook.com/groups/897589067648140/  

Request Marriage Help Bit.ly/RelationshipHelp4U  

Or you can find her on FB and see her positive, thoughtful posts regularly on her personal FB page Heather Tucker.   

You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through this YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.  Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!  

Dr. Lea Lis lit up my podcast with her wisdom in this episode. She works with adults, teens and kids about how to experience their body and sexuality without shame. We get into the nitty gritties of shame and what the antidotes are.

You can find her at www.shamelesspsychiatrist.com, and www.drlealis.com

her YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOnVE-Dwn3kP815WDDJJSZQ)

and you can find her book, "No Shame" here. (www.noshamebook.com)

You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.

Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

You will love this episode! Mike has exceptional views and experience around shame, relationships and all things sexuality. He is a fantastic storyteller and has stories to tell that will really make you think! 

We talk about: 

-the fascinating possibility of bringing your deepest sexual shames to light IN the bedroom, 

-getting clear on WHO you are so you can approach your relationship and sexuality from a place of clarity and responsibility, 

-setting boundaries and creating a safe space for yourself within the bedroom, 

-how understanding our sexuality can make our businesses and our lives LIGHT UP, 

- how the feeling of shame is, in a way, wanting death

-and much, much more.

You can find him at his website or his IG account.

You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.

Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

This is such a fantastic episode for any mother or almost-mother (or father) out there! Megan does such a great job de-shaming parent's sex lives and what it often looks like after giving birth to a crying, needy, adorable mini human. It affects us. A lot. In a myriad of ways. And so it affects our sex lives.

Among other things, we talk about the importance of masturbation, having compassion on yourself, and being gentle with your body and starting off slow. We talk about societal pressure and the pressure of added responsibility, and how that also affects things. 

You can find her at www.bumpandglow.ca, and her IG: @bumpglow.

You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.

My YT is: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtA0cpSZVa0LtIef18nitnQ

and my FB is: https://www.facebook.com/Phoebe-D-Coaching-104306914572676/

Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

In this episode, I talk to Colle Larme, Career Coach and Founder of the meetup group "Kinda Out Queer Chicks", a peer support group for women who are coming out later in life. She talks about her personal journey to shifting from straight to queer and what that looked like. We also cover topics like virginity, mindful self pleasure, and the fears people might have who have discovered later in life that they aren't actually straight.

You can find her at www.wildermindcoaching.com or her Meetup group Kinda Out Queer Chicks.

We talked about the quote "“You can't be what you can't see.” by Marian Wright Edelman, and the book Untamed by Glennon Doyle.

You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, or my website, www.phoebed.com.

Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

This episode we hear from sex and pleasure coach Anna Graybill. She grew up Mormon, and found her way to queerness, polyamory, and tantra! We talk about how having her first child was a wake-up call, how her and her husband had fun exploring gender, and how she always had two sides- a more liberal side and a more conservative side that would take turns being in control.

You can watch this LIVE on YouTube here.

You can find Anna at her IG account: @annagraybill and also through her website, www.annagraybill.com

You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, or my website, www.phoebed.com

Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

In this podcast, I talked with Liane Elle, who used to be a Jehovah Witness. We hear about her journey growing up, getting married and divorced, to selling sex toys and sowing her wild oats! We also talk about shame and the power of pleasure. 

You can connect more with her through her IG account: @liane_elle_coaching  or her FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/risefromreligioustrauma

The book Liane mentions is "Trauma is Really Strange" and you can find it on Amazon, or check it out here: https://bodycollege.net/trauma/

You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, or my website, www.phoebed.com

Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!