I was sexually abused early on and I either wasn’t believed or my mom just didn’t give fudge. I was paid $5 by my abuser not to tell my mom. I did tell the next morning. But nothing happened. Don’t be that mom or dad or caregiver that don’t believe the child when they say to you, that someone is touching them. I turned out OK but that’s not the story for some. Please DO NOT put a man or woman before your kids. You only have one job and a job you asked for. Do your damn job!