Ever wonder who your husband turns to for relationship advice?

It seems to be Google.

We looked up the five most commonly searched phrases starting with, “how do I get my wife to…” and the results were a bit surprising.

Here are a few:

How do I get my wife to listen to me?

Listen to her. Empathize and validate. Connect with the feelings she is sharing. Do not problem solve or give advice unless explicitly asked. Make your goal to understand her. Give what you’d like to receive.

How do I get my wife to love me again?

Focus on making positive deposits in your emotional bank account. Establish and commit to daily rituals of connection (check out Episode 002 - Getting Back To The Honeymoon Phase - One Habit At A Time for more on that). Small things often is the key here. Small moments of friendship, emotional intimacy, and physical intimacy.

How do I get my wife to leave me?

Umm, what? How is this Googled?! If that’s your thing, the best way to get your wife to leave you is - act contemptuous. It’s the number one predictor of divorce.

For the top two, you’ll have to listen to this week’s episode! (We’ve got to tell you… number one SHOCKED us).