Shadow Mike Podcast

Summary

In this episode of the Shadow Mike Podcast, Michael explores the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho'oponopono. This practice is referred to as a forgiveness practice, but we must first face or distorted understanding of forgiveness. Ho'oponopono ultimately releases trapped energy in our relationships. If we do this work, we learn to truly love others while simultaneously reconnecting with our love and creating capacity for authentic relationships.

If you'd like to experience ho'oponopono below are a few resources:

• Book a Ho'oponopono and Energy Session with Dr. Michael Simmons
• Register for a Huna (Ho'omana) workshop in Portland, 10/24-25th. Led by Lisset King
• Book Recommendation: Ho'oponopono by Dr. Matt James

Key topics

The meaning and practice of Ho'oponopono

Energy movement and internal work in Hawaiian spirituality

The role of forgiveness in personal empowerment

Cutting energetic cords to release past trauma

The relationship between connection, goodness, and harmony

The impact of victim and perpetrator narratives on energy

Practical applications of Ho'opono Pono in daily life

The integration of shadow work and forgiveness

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Hawaiian practice of Ho'oponopono

01:58 Breaking down the meaning of Pono and making things right

03:55 The internal and external work of energy movement in Hawaiian spirituality

06:49 Reframing forgiveness as a practice of balance and harmony

09:56 The role of energy, connection, and disconnection in relationships

13:10 Using Ho'oponopono to cut energetic cords and renew relationships

17:11 The myth of inherent badness and the true meaning of goodness

21:52 Personal story of practicing Ho'oponopono during divorce and healing

27:09 Synchronicities and the power of love in the forgiveness process

30:12 Who in your life is draining your energy and how to address it

34:04 The importance of integrating shadow work and owning your energy

36:56 Resources and next steps for practicing Ho'oponopono

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Mike Simmons, Goddess Brittney King, and Jessica Alfaqih delve into the multifaceted world of magick, exploring its historical context, the stigma surrounding witches, and the personal stories that connect individuals to their magical heritage. They discuss the power of words as spells, the importance of intention in spellcasting, and the significance of creating sacred spaces for magical practices. The conversation emphasizes the accessibility of magic in everyday life and encourages listeners to embrace their own magical potential.

Jessica and Goddess Brittney's Links

Passion Ignited with Jessica and Goddess Brittney: https://www.jessicaalfaqih.com/passion-ignited | A high vibe day retreat in a forest sanctuary just outside Portland,OR | Nov. 8th 2025

The Goddess Experience: https://www.goddessbrittneyking.com/goddess

A 5 Day Luxury Retreat in the Jungles of Puerto Vallarta | January 26th-30th 2026

Conservatory of Magick: https://www.skool.com/conservatoryofmagick/about | Join the Conservatory of Magick! A community gathering place only for modern mystics, witches, healers, and seekers ready to activate their magick and create meaningful transformation in their lives.

Chapters

00:00 Witchcraft and Its Stigmas

05:46 Reclaiming Power and Identity

10:44 Family Myths and Personal Stories

15:35 Creating Reality Through Words

20:33 The Nature of Spells and Intentions

31:25 The Power of Words as Spells

35:44 Intention and Emotional Charge in Spell Work

39:04 Creating Sacred Spaces for Spell Casting

44:54 The Role of Nature in Manifestation

49:14 Radical Responsibility and Personal Power

57:04 Practical Magic: Engaging with Elements

01:06:06 Upcoming Offerings and Community Engagement

Summary & Description

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Mike Simmons sits down with Lisset King explore the transformative power of the Hawaiian practice of Huna. Lisset and Mike vulnerably their stories of healing and the resulting abundance they create and enjoy. They discuss the elemental nature of Huna, the three selves, and the power of focusing action and energy on the life we desire. The conversation emphasizes that change is possible when we release emotional baggage, envision a better reality, take inspired action, and focus attention when we hit barriers.

Lisset King Lisset King is an Emotional Ninja, Trainer of NLP, Master Practitioner of Hypnotherapy, and devoted student and teacher of the ancient Hawaiian practice of Huna. As co-host of Honest Feedback Podcast, she blends science and spirit to help high-achievers to master their emotions, rewire their unconscious minds, and reclaim their power. Through transformational retreats, breakthrough sessions, and unapologetic truth-telling, Lisset guides clients to live lives of limitless joy, purpose, and radical self-trust.

Lisset's Links

Huna Workshop: https://www.lissetking.com/event-details/huna-intro-february-21st-and-22nd

Hypnosis Work: https://www.lissetking.com/shop

Tuesday Morning Mastery Call: https://masterymornings.myflodesk.com/join

Honest Feedback Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@honestfeedbackpodcast

Mike's Links

Your Shadow Rising (Substack): https://shadowmike.substack.com/

1:1 Shadow Work Journeys: https://www.shadowmike.com/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Emotional Breakthroughs

01:36 The Role of Huna in Transformation

04:40 Understanding the Emotional Ninja

07:32 The Power of Neuro-Linguistic Programming

10:40 Exploring Huna's Spiritual Lineage

13:32 The Elements of Huna and Personal Empowerment

16:33 Healing Through Energy Work

19:38 The Three Selves: Conscious, Unconscious, and Higher Self

22:35 Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs

25:27 The Matrix and Spiritual Awakening

28:34 God's Promise and the Nature of Reality

40:01 The Power of Self-Discovery and Love

41:04 Transformative Experiences and Miracles

42:09 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

43:35 Money as a Symbol of Self-Worth

44:53 Baking Your Own Cookies: Self-Sufficiency

46:56 Redefining Gratitude

49:03 Financial Breakthroughs and Abundance

52:35 Unpacking Sexual Trauma and Healing

59:16 The Interplay of Money and Self-Relationship

01:07:32 The Journey of Inner Work and Transformation

About Goddess Brittney King:

Goddess Brittney King is a sought-after Pleasure Priestess, somatic alchemist, and transformational guide for women ready to live turned-on, soul-led lives. Her work blends practical tools with sacred practices, empowering women to reconnect to their bodies, trust their desires, and create lives that feel deeply nourishing, alive, and aligned. Whether through retreats, mentorship, or pleasure rituals, Brittney creates spaces where women feel seen, supported, and safe to come home to themselves. She is a stand for you to remember and reclaim pleasure as your birthright.

Link:

The Goddess Experience: https://www.goddessbrittneyking.com/goddess

- A 5 Day Luxury Retreat in the Jungles of Puerto Vallarta

- January 26-30, 2026

Pleasure Awakening Meditation (Complementary Gift): https://www.goddessbrittneyking.com/gift

Explore all Goddess Brittney King has to offer here: https://bio.site/goddessbrittneyking

Episode Description:

In this conversation, Dr. Mike Simmons and Goddess Brittney King explore the themes of sexuality, pleasure, and the impact of purity culture on personal empowerment. They discuss the importance of reconnecting with one's body, the dichotomy between spirituality and sexuality, and the journey of self-discovery. Brittney shares her experiences and insights on how to build safety and trust in pleasure, emphasizing that it is never too late to embrace new experiences. The conversation culminates in an introduction to the Goddess Experience, an initiation retreat designed to help women reconnect with their divine selves and transform their lives through pleasure and empowerment.

Chapters

00:00 Embracing Sexuality and Pleasure

10:39 The Impact of Purity Culture

11:54 Purity Culture & Fear of Sexuality

12:36 Purity Culture and Fear of Sexuality

16:00 Connecting with the Body

18:53 Building Trust and Safety

21:41 The Power of Pleasure

24:15 Connecting with your Body

31:59 Your Unconscious Mind: Keep You Safe, Make You Right

33:23 Unpacking the Roots of Pleasure and Safety

35:25 Navigating Personal Stories and Societal Norms

37:44 The Cost of Transformation and Embracing Change

39:34 Choosing Joy Amidst Grief and Loss

42:17 The Power of Initiation and Divine Connection

46:23 The Goddess Experience: An Invitation to Divinity

53:50 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change

57:30 Embracing Pleasure as a Path to Power

Description

In this episode, Shadow Mike interviews Brian Recker about his highly anticipated book, Hell Bent: How the Fear of Hell Holds Christians Back from a Spirituality of Love. Hell Bent s available for pre-order (link below), and hits the shelfs officially September 30th.

Links

Pre-order Hell Bent: https://www.amazon.com/Hell-Bent-Holds-Christians-Spirituality/dp/0593853199/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0

Brian's Substack: https://brianrecker.substack.com

Brian's website: https://www.brianrecker.com

Mike's Substack: https://substack.com/@shadowmike

Mike's Website: https://www.shadowmike.com/

Top Takeaways

Reclaiming Christianity involves a new paradigm focused on personal spirituality rather than a collective 'should'.

Deconstructing the concept of hell is essential for a positive spirituality.

Many Christians struggle with the idea of spirituality being rooted in punishment and fear.

The journey from fundamentalism to a broader understanding of Christianity can be complex and challenging.

Fear of hell often distorts relationships and spirituality, leading to alienation from loved ones.

The Good Samaritan story illustrates that those we often reject may be our greatest teachers.

A spirituality of love emphasizes connection and community over fear and punishment.

The macro impact of a hell-centered spirituality can lead to neglect of social justice issues.

Reimagining Jesus involves seeing him as a model for love and connection rather than a punitive figure.

True spirituality is about flourishing in this life, not just avoiding punishment in the next.

Chapters

00:00 Spirituality and Language

01:45 Deconstructing Hell: A New Paradigm

05:48 Personal Experiences of Fear and Punishment

08:50 The Impact of Early Spiritual Conditioning

11:37 The Journey of Deconstruction

14:57 The Role of Love in Spirituality

17:36 Fear-Based Spirituality and Its Effects

20:24 The Alienation of Relationships

23:30 The Complexity of Family Dynamics

26:39 The Struggle for Authenticity in Faith

29:21 The Impact of Spirituality on Relationships

31:35 Colonization of Spirituality and Learning from Others

40:54 Reimagining Christianity and the Path Forward

50:41 Finding Authenticity and Love in Spirituality

Summary

Interested in Shadow Work? I offer Shadow Work Journey for those ready to make massive change, and shift the trajectory of their life. Read more at https://www.shadowmike.com/journeys

In this episode of the Shadow Mike Podcast, I share my own journey of loosening the grip of evangelicalism — not just in my beliefs, but in my body. We talk about what happens when a faith framework shapes your nervous system, and why even after you’ve “left,” the old patterns still show up. I dig into how the unconscious mind holds on to limiting beliefs, why releasing them is so necessary, and how the four requisites of change found in MER (Mental and Emotional Release) work can help you install a whole new way of being. I also share how coaching can guide you through the messy, beautiful work of transformation — from purity-and-confession-driven living to a deeper trust in yourself.

Resources

Substack: shadowmike.substack.com

Substack Article: Your Unconscious Mind Still Believes in the Evangelical God

Book: Mental and Emotional Release (MER) by Dr. Matt James:

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

06:52 Detaching from Evangelicalism: Attuning to Our Body's Experience

10:34 Locating the Negative Divine in Our Feelings, Limiting Beliefs, and Symptoms

15:00 The Unconscious Mind: Beliefs and Reactions

25:12 You Can Install New Beliefs in Your Unconscious Mind

27:13 Mental and Emotional Release: Steps to Transformation

27:24 Step 1: Release of Negative Emotion, Belief

30:46 Step 2: Set a New Intention

32:54 Step 3: Action

38:37 Step 4: Focus

43:43 You have to Consciously Install the New Operating System

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Mike Simmons and Jennifer Delliquadri explore the transformative journey of personal growth, focusing on mentorship, midlife evolution, and the importance of subtle shifts in achieving one's goals. Jennifer shares her insights on overcoming self-doubt and perfectionism, the significance of connecting to source energy, and the supportive role of ancestral guidance in one's journey. The discussion emphasizes the necessity of taking action, even amidst healing, and the value of having a mentor to navigate the complexities of personal development.

Connect with Jennifer

Jennifer Delliquadri is a Sovereign Life & Business Mentor and the creator of the Subtle Shifts Method—a transformational approach that helps soul-led entrepreneurs reclaim their clarity, embody their purpose, and build aligned lives and businesses with strategy and soul. Through her work, she guides purpose-driven humans to magnetize and monetize their mission—without burnout or self-betrayal.

Learn more about Jennifer and her services at www.jenniferdelliquadri.com

Listen to Subtle Shifts with Jennifer Delliquadri on Apple Podcasts & Spotify

Follow Jennifer on Instagram @jennifer.delliquadri

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

03:20 Jennifer's Coaching Philosophy

05:18 Midlife Evolution and Initiation

12:35 Understanding Subtle Shifts

16:32 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Perfectionism

21:17 The Role of Action in Healing

24:33 Nervous System Regulation

31:26 Connecting to Source Energy

36:49 Ancestral Support and Legacy

40:15 Coaching Container and Client Journey

Summary Below

Interested in Shadow Work? I offer Shadow Work Journey for those ready to make massive change, and shift the trajectory of their life. Read more at https://www.shadowmike.com/journeys

In this conversation, Dr. Mike Simmons explores the complexities of decision-making, particularly within the context of the common Christian myth. He discusses how this myth has led to a systematic mistrust of intuition and self, creating anxiety and decision paralysis. The conversation delves into the impact of spiritual bypassing, the internal conflict between conscious desires and unconscious beliefs, and the importance of reclaiming personal authority. Dr. Simmons emphasizes the need for action and experimentation in decision-making, encouraging listeners to embrace their desires and trust their intuition as they navigate life's choices.

Links & Events

1. Huna Workshop | October 11th-12th (Portland)

2. From Shame to Self Love Retreat | October 3-5: (Portland)

3. Keave Process as mentioned in the episode

4. Coach Kyle Tennyzen's Website (voice in Keave Recording)

Chapters

00:00 The Struggle with Decision-Making

00:35 Introduction to the Episode

04:27 Decision Making

06:17 Disconnecting from Intuition, Clinging to Obedience

13:40 The Impact of the Common Christian Myth

20:25 Internalized Self-Doubt and Decision Paralysis

23:00 Spiritual Bypassing as a Fear Response

29:10 Action is the Medicine

32:26 Make a Better Dichotomy

33:55 Keawe: A Practice of Naming and Dissolving old Dichotomies

37:09 You Have Heard it Said, But I say

Takeaways

Decision-making can create anxiety and paralysis.

The common Christian myth teaches mistrust of self and intuition.

Obedience is often prioritized over personal desires.

Plans can limit divine guidance and intuition.

Crisis can be a catalyst for growth and clarity.

Spiritual bypassing leads to seeking external validation.

Internal conflict arises from mistrust in one's own heart.

Action is essential for reclaiming personal authority.

Life should be viewed as a laboratory for experimentation.

Desires are guiding forces, not obstacles to obedience.

Ready to make a massive shift in how you’re relating and living your life? I offer 1:1 Shadow Work Journeys for those ready to embody the life they keep imagining. You can read more here and schedule a Free 30-min Discovery Call.

Summary

In this conversation, Michael Simmons explores the concept of projection and idealization, particularly in relation to spirituality and the divine. He discusses how individuals often project their own qualities onto others, especially figures like Jesus, and the implications of this for personal growth and self-empowerment. The conversation emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's own 'gold'—the qualities and strengths that have been idealized in others—and integrating them into one's own life. Simmons critiques the church's role in this dynamic, likening it to a multi-level marketing organization that often leads to a psychological split between the idealized self and the shadow self. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to recognize their own divinity and the light within themselves, advocating for a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Projection and Idealization

03:50 The Nature of Projection in Personal Growth

07:10 The Role of Idealization in Spirituality

10:07 Jesus as a Gold Carrier: The Psychological Implications

13:08 The Cross as a Metaphor for Personal Burden

16:02 The Dangers of Outsourcing Spirituality

19:04 The Impact of Idealization on Self-Perception

21:51 The Multi-Level Marketing Analogy in Church Dynamics

25:14 Reclaiming Your Gold: The Process of Integration

28:00 The Exchange of Gold: A Path to Empowerment

30:55 The Invitation of Jesus: Embodying Your Own Divinity

33:50 The Power of Faith and Personal Agency

37:13 Conclusion: Embracing Your Inner Light

Summary Below:

Interested in Shadow Work? I offer Shadow Work Journey for those ready to make massive change, and shift the trajectory of their life. You can read more at https://www.shadowmike.com/journeys

In this episode, Dr. Mike Simmons delves into the journey of authentic spirituality, exploring the limiting beliefs that often stem from traditional Christian teachings. He shares personal experiences of spiritual awakening and the dichotomy of feeling connected to the divine while also feeling depleted. Through the lens of Huna wisdom, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's inner power and the shift from viewing oneself as a rechargeable battery to understanding oneself as solar-powered, drawing energy from the universe. The conversation culminates in practical principles for embracing personal empowerment and living authentically.

Upcoming Huna Workshop October 11th-12th (Portland): https://www.lissetking.com/huna

You can read a little more about the 7 principles of Huna here: https://www.sacredlomi.com/articles-lomi/principles-of-huna/

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Authentic Spirituality

04:16 The Impact of Limiting Beliefs

07:01 Personal Spiritual Awakening

09:49 The Dichotomy of Divine Connection

13:12 Shifting Perspectives on God

16:08 The Journey of Self-Discovery

19:00 From Rechargeable Battery to Solar Power

21:59 Principles of Huna and Inner Power

Takeaways

The journey to authentic spirituality reveals inherited beliefs.

Limiting beliefs can prevent exploration of new possibilities.

Spiritual awakenings can occur in unexpected moments.

Connection to the divine should not be transactional.

The common Christian myth can create anxiety and fear.

Self-empowerment comes from within, not from external sources.

Energy dynamics play a crucial role in spiritual practice.

We are not rechargeable batteries; we are solar-powered beings.

The world reflects our beliefs and perceptions.

Now is the moment of power to change our narratives.