This episode speaks about thrcroller coaster ride we go through with our emotions and feelings in an abusive relationship. How long does it take for us to gather strength to actually finally get out of it. It's very hard and difficult to make that first step and make the change. Take any help you need to aid that move. These days you have help lines, you can call or even police, I had no help at all. Domestic violence is dangerous and can kill you. So be careful while you make the move. Take care, take precautions, have good trustable friends and family.

Children are the worst victims in a violent relationship. Children grow up believing they are responsible for these fights and they are the reason for all these. Growing in neglect and stress and trauma during their childhood damages them forever. Longer this period of trauma, worse the mental disturbance for the kids. Many kids even get beaten and abused, not just being witnesses. Any of them are bad for the child. Take the action now, make the change.. Earlier you correct this better chances to repair the damages. Troubled relationships are not worth wasting time and energy for. Allow your child to be a child as long as possible. Don't rob their childhood too by making choices to tolerate. You may think forgiving and staying is divinity. There is no divinity in that, instead you are choosing to ignore, disrespect and letting abuse on yourself and your children. Divinity is in respecting the blessings you have and moving away from anyone or anything that does not respect your life and your blessings. Love Shakti

SHAKTI shares the why's and how's about the violent relationships. Domestic violence and reasons for this could be many. However, what's important is to identify the patterns, accept your current status and take the actions required at the earliest. My own experience of abuses I experienced during the 10 years of my abusive marriage in India. The percentage of deaths due to domestic violence is largely increasing in India, in Australia and many more countries. Mine was when I was in India. Strict laws only came into action sometime towards the end of my 10 years. There was no numbers to call in times of abuse nor did any neighbours call police even when I screamed for help.

This episode shares about how I never realised I was being abused in my marriage. How I thought it was all normal and accepted that this happens in all families. Marriage or any relationship is heavenly when it's the right one. The right one is waiting just around the corner. So stay hopeful, gather strength and get out of any abusive relationship. Domestic violence in any form is unacceptable and only does harm to everyone in that home and their extended families. Make the change ASAP. With love