Shameless Conversations... About Pussy

We talkin all the VDay shenans in this episode! Tune innnn!

Guess who's bizack!?! We are, duh lol.. and with a  whole new season of Shameless Conversation for you! In this first episode of SZN 2 we're exploring friendships AND situationships between men and women. If you've ever found yourself going through a break up with somebody you were never even with then this episode is for you.  If you've ever questioned what kind of benefits you were really getting from a friends with benefits then this one is for you... If you've ever found yourself drinking Henny out the bottle, sitting outside your sneaky links house crying with Usher's "Let It Burn" on then... you may need some help. But you should also listen in! 

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Welcome to Episode 14 Shameless Fam!! If you've been listening for a while then you know we love to make you laugh especially if we can teach you a little somethin somethin as you chuckle. So it's only fair to let you know that this episode, while full of all of our laughable candor, is a little bit on the heavier side. 
This time were talking about the big A...  and A is not for anal although I'm sure we'll get to that at some point in our journey together. A is for Abortion. Retro and Some Body share some pretty personal stories of  missed periods... taking pregnancy tests in office bathrooms, crying over Plan B pills and yes even an experience of what it was like to get an abortion. 
This is an open love letter to anyone who has ever experienced this before and maybe a different perspective for those who haven't. As always we hope you enjoy, laugh a little, and learn a lot. 

With love, 
Retro and Some Body with The Body

So what had happened was... someone slid in our DMs and asked us if we believed in toxic femininity (as if believing in it can be likened to something like believing in Santa Claus or the Tooth Fairy) and then they went on to ask us what the definition of toxic femininity is. 
We answered the question via dm and on this episode of Shameless but not before we rolled our eyes in apparent liberation privilege. The short answer: toxicity is genderless... we all got that shit. 
But in what ways are women.. and more pointedly Black women toxic? And since it was National Coming Out Day, how can Black women display toxic behaviors when it comes to sexuality and gender. So we started asking questions: 

What makes a man gay? 
Is there a gay agenda?
Why don't men have the space to explore sexuality in the ways that women do? 
What is it about trans identity that makes people so damn mad?

So in typical Shameless fashion we used humor and personal stories to tackle all of these questions. Take a listen and then hit our DMs and tell us what you think!

How soon is too soon to talk about your sexual kinks with a new partner? Would you wanna know right away? Or have them lead you to a Shades of Grey style dungeon 3 months into a committed relationship?

What's on your personal kinky bucket list? Pegging? Threesomes? How bout up in the library with that chocolate chocolate make it melt? Whips and chains? Handcuffs!? Smack a little booty up with your belt?.... (why yes, that is more of a Ludacris fantasy but hey no judgement here *wink*) 

We put these questions in our dms for our followers to answer and well umm ya'll nasssty LOL.. We were so proud of the answers we got that we used this episode to talk about them and of course to share some of our own. So listen in on this episode to see if your flavor of kink made it into the discussion. If it didn't (and you'd like it to) make sure to shoot us a dm or email! In the meantime we hope you. enjoy the episode.

This is our gayest episode yet!nIn this episode we got a chance to talk to a fellow Black Queer Podcaster, Rocky Lee Savage with Pleasurable Noise. When she reached out we knew this was the perfect opportunity to talk about femme on femme dating and all of our dating experiences (*cough cough* struggles *cough cough*). All in all this episode turned into the queer version of P. Diddy and Usher's I Need A Girl song lol. If you don't get that reference you're probably too young to be MY girlfriend but not too young to listen to the episode. 

As always, Enjoy!

Russell Brand spent 17 minutes on YouTube talking about Cardi B and Meg The Stallion's song new banger WAP... so naturally we spent 2 hours talking about it... don't worry, We've widdled it down to a smooth hour of WET ASS PUSSY talk. 
How did you feel when you first heard the song? Is it your new anthem? Did the lyrics embarrass you? Whether you were concerned about the necessity of a bucket and a mop for a WAP,  like Dr. Ben Shapiro or the lyrics took you down memory lane like the sweet viral Granny who listened to WAP for the first time, we cover it all! So pull up and enjoy!

Body count, a little question that can cause a lot of problems. But does it really tell you anything? Retro and Some Body talk about what better questions can be asked to find out what you really want to know. We also detangle what entanglement means and why it's so hard to label a relationship. 

We found out Cardi B is bleaching her bikini line and the place where she does it also offers pussy tightening... while we may be a while away from top notch doctors with skin bleaching tools (and we may choose to stay that way) it launched us into a conversation about how much care we really put into our vaginas! From ingrown treatments, vagacials (yep it's exactly what you think it is), organic lubricants, pussy steaming and good old fashion kegals, we hit the pussy care topic pretty damn hard. 

If you've ever wondered about menstrual cups or you've been thinking about getting period panties or you have no clue what either of those are and you just want to know how Retro and Some Body feel about having sex on your period then THIS is the episode for you. We're talking all the the period tingz and somehow we managed not to say Period, Pooh once.... which is an accomplishment.