In this deeply intimate and expansive episode of the Shameless Freedom Podcast, Jen Bugajsky welcomes her very first guest, Desiree Pitman channeler, healer, and embodiment guide for a raw, honest, and powerful conversation about feminine power, sacred sexuality, vulnerability, and learning to feel at home in your body.

Together, we explore what it truly means to love yourself as the “only naked woman in the room,” unpacking the shame, conditioning, and silent suffering so many women carry around their bodies, pleasure, and desire. Desiree shares pivotal moments from her life that shaped her relationship with her body and sexuality, including her journey through anxiety, depression, trauma, and a profound spiritual awakening that reconnected her to her intuitive and energetic gifts.

This episode dives into:

• Why body shame and silence around pleasure are a quiet epidemic for women

• The power of thoughts, energy, and self-talk on the body and nervous system

• How joy, embodiment, and small acts of self-honoring can radically shift your life

• Vulnerability as being fully seen—body, energy, and soul

• Why learning to feel (instead of fixing or numbing) is the gateway to intimacy, pleasure, and freedom

This is a conversation about reclaiming your body, trusting your sensations, and allowing yourself to feel—without apology. If you’ve ever struggled with loving your body, accessing pleasure, or giving yourself permission to slow down and receive, this episode is an invitation back home to yourself.

✨ Come listen, soften, and remember what’s always been inside you.

You can find Desire at: Spiritual Awakening Journey | Desirea Pitman - Angelic Light Activator

Desirea Pitman is an energy intuitive, teacher, and spiritual guide who helps others awaken their inner awareness and trust their intuitive gifts. Through meditation, frequency work, channeling, and hands-on intuitive training, she creates playful, grounded, and transformative learning spaces. Desirea has taught thousands of students and is the author of My Body Is a Pendulum, with a focus on practical intuition, energy healing, and conscious spiritual development.

In this deeply vulnerable episode of the Shameless Freedom Podcast, Jen explores a powerful truth: sometimes we must let go of others to fully embrace and love ourselves.

Jen shares a personal story of a past relationship and the moment she realized that true self-love requires discernment, release, and deep connection to our own desires.

From the profound impact of human touch to the subtle ways we seek love outside ourselves, this episode is an invitation to reconnect with your own body, your feelings, and your worth.

If you’ve ever struggled with self-love, desire, or finding your own sense of belonging, this conversation will guide you to:

• Recognize when relationships are keeping you from yourself

• Reclaim the love, touch, and adoration you crave within

• Deepen your connection to your body, mind, and heart

Sometimes, losing something or someone is the key to finding yourself.

🎧 Listen now and step into a deeper, unapologetic love of yourself.

There is a silent epidemic among high-achieving, faith-filled women, shame around desire, pleasure, intimacy, and power. In this episode, we open a bold yet safe conversation where the sensual meets the spiritual, pleasure is reclaimed as holy, and women (and men) are invited to release conditioning, heal relational trauma, and remember who they were before the world told them to be small. This is an invitation to curiosity, embodiment, and a deeper intimacy with self, body, and life.

Where in your life are you carrying pressure that was never meant to be yours? The weight of perfectionism, performance, and constant doing can leave you feeling heavy, stuck, and exhausted.

In this episode of Release the Pressure, we explore how pressure becomes normalized, how it disconnects you from yourself, and how to begin creating space to breathe again.

In this episode, Jen explores the hidden gap between thinking you feel sexy in your body and what your nervous system is actually experiencing.

She uncovers how spiritual language can mask unprocessed shame and invites women back into genuine embodiment, truth, and felt sensuality rather than bypassing what’s really happening in the body.

Are you “working on your body,” or are you in a nourishing relationship with your body? In this episode, we explore the powerful shift from discipline, pressure, and control to devotion, trust, and embodied self-love.

The same habits can either come from proving your worth… or honoring it. When you move from relationship instead of efforting, your body stops being a project and becomes a partner.

This shift changes everything.

In this episode, I share the deeply personal inspiration behind my tattoo I Am the Sky. As someone who has been deadly afraid of needles, choosing this ritual became a powerful act of devotion to my evolution.

This tattoo marks the release of the breadwinner mentality and anchors a new identity rooted in trust, expansion, and surrender.

Just as I once claimed my sexuality through a bold bikini waxing ritual, this moment became another embodied declaration of who I am becoming spacious, sovereign, and led by something greater.

Neediness isn’t weak or wrong. There is power in the ask.

For centuries, families lived in community they neededeach other, they asked, they received, they supported. In the Western world, we’ve been taught to thrive on independence, often forgetting how to ask from an empowered place.

Too often, we ask from need trying to fill a hole insideus rather than from wholeness, from confidence, from sovereignty. But when we learn to ask from power, everything changes. Asking becomes a tool to embody your authority, claim your desires, and show up fully in the bedroom, the boardroom, or even over a simple coffee.

This episode is for every woman ready to reclaim hervoice, embrace the power of her ask, and stop apologizing for needing what she wants.

For years, I lived as the breadwinner strong, independent, and operating mostly in my masculine energy even while teachingand embodying the feminine.

In this episode, I explore how parts of us can still put up walls of independence and strength when it comes to the masculine, blocking the natural support they’re here to offer.

Using the metaphor of flowers in a vase, I share how thefeminine and masculine need each other, and how, on that cliff in Mexico, I felt the masculine energy breaking through my walls, allowing me to fully step into my power as a feminine goddess.

If you’re ready to stop emasculating men, release thearmour of doubt, and trust the masculine, this episode is for you.

What happens when something precious is taken from you?In this episode, I share the story of my stolen jewelry pieces that once symbolized my feminine power, beauty, and worth and the powerful lesson that came with their loss.

Through grief and surrender, I discovered that nothing can truly be stolen from me, because my radiance lives within.

This conversation is a reminder that our feminine energydeserves to be expressed outwardly through what we wear, how we adorn ourselves, and how we move in the world while also knowing that our true essence can never be taken away.

Learn how to reclaim your feminine energy, embody your radiance, and remember that you are the treasure.

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