Over a decade ago, I said YES to something that terrified us: a sexy photoshoot.  The desire was there, but so was the self-doubt: “Maybe I should lose 10 pounds first… maybe I shouldn’t spend the money…” The monkey mind was loud. 

But here’s what we realized: empowerment doesn’t wait for the “perfect” body. Owning your sexuality, your beauty, and your worth happens right here, right now. No matter your size or shape. I did the shoot. It was scary. It was playful. It was freeing. And it became a turning point in embracing my body and power.  This episode is your reminder: you don’t have to shrink to shine.

Welcome to this deeply honest episode where we unpack the guilt, shame, and confusion that can follow moments when we did say no or wanted to but the boundary was crossed anyway.

Too many of us have lived through experiences where we were told it was our fault, that we led someone on, that we “should have known better.”
We internalize it. We blame ourselves. We tell ourselves that next time we’ll be stronger.

But what no one talks about enough is how these momentssilently shape how we show up in the world.
How they fracture our trust, not just in others, but in ourselves. How they make us question our worth, our voice, our safety.

This episode is about reclaiming that power.
It’s about learning that your no was enough, even if it wasn’trespected.
It’s about recognizing that the shame never belonged to you in the first place.

Because saying no isn’t just a boundary, it’s a declarationof your truth.
And no one has the right to override that.

Today’s episode dives into one of the most common anddamaging beliefs women carry:
That sexuality isn’t important. That it’s optional. It belongs on the back burner.

But what if ignoring your sexuality is like ignoring a leakingsink behind the wall?
You don’t see it every day… You pretend it’s fine… Until one day the floor is rotting, the walls are moldy, and your entire foundation feels off.

That’s what happens when we disconnect from our sexuality.

We will address:

What if Your Sexuality Was Sacred, Not Shameful?

What if prioritizing your sensual and sexual aliveness wasthe most generous thing you could do for yourself, your body, your relationships, and your mission?

What if your sexuality wasn’t just about sex but about yourlife force, your truth, your radiance?

This isn’t about becoming “sexier” for someone else.
This is about reclaiming the parts of you that you were told to shut down.
Because your sexuality is not a side piece, it’s a core part of who you are.
And when you reconnect to that?
You become unstoppable.

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This episode is personal. It’s a confession.

After doing this work for nearly a decade… after witnessingthe power of erotic energy transform lives—including my own. I still shut off my own turn-on.

It happened after I released a man from my life.
Not consciously, but deeply, subtly… I closed the door to my own pleasure.

And maybe you’ve done this too. Maybe you used to feel sexy, alive, radiant and somewhere along the way, it disappeared. You buried it. You convinced yourself you didn’t need it. You got busy. You got hurt. You got tired.

But I get it. I really get it.
Because knowing the work isn’t always enough.
We can know and still numb.
Still fear. Still doubt. Still carry the shame.

But this new layer of awareness?
It changes everything.

It deepens the power behind this work.
The transmission of erotic energy isn’t just sexy
It’s sacred. It’s transformational.

This is why I’m so passionate about helping women reclaimit.
Because your true power?
It’s in your erotic energy.
It’s in your pleasure.
It’s in the parts of you you’ve been taught to shut down.

And it’s time to turn it back on. 🔥

We say we want change. We say we want healing, freedom,pleasure…
But wanting isn’t enough.  You have to decide.

Just like losing weight or creating success, healing yoursexuality doesn’t happen by accident.
You must choose it. Declare it. Commit to it.

Without that decision, your sexuality stays dormant.
Your aliveness stays buried.
And the deep connection you crave with yourself, your partner, your purpose remains out of reach.

But the moment you decide? Everything begins to shift.

Your body awakens.
Your heart opens.
Your life changes.

So what are you waiting for?
The power lies in your decision.

When we talk about turn on, most people think of sex.
But turn on is so much more than feeling sexy.
It’s about being fully alive.
Turn on is a connection to the fullness of who you are as a woman your emotions, your desires, your power, your radiance.
It’s playing with all eighty-eight keys of your internal piano not just the high notes of pleasure, but the deep, rich tones of grief, anger, joy, and sensuality.
Turn on is embodiment.
It’s presence.
It’s power.
You can tap into it by:
- Enjoying the simple pleasures of life
- Tuning into your sensual and sexual energy
- Loving and living in your body not judging it
- Allowing physical chemistry with another to awaken your senses
- Honoring the emotions you’ve been told are “too much” the sorrow, the rage, the ache
Because when you reclaim your turn on, you reclaim yourself.
You become magnetic. You lead with energy, not just effort.
You move through life from a place of wholeness and deep truth.
So…What really turns you on?
And are you willing to feel it?

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I’ve been doing this work for over a decade. And still, people call me “the sexy lady” like it’s some surface-level label.

But let’s be honest most people have no idea what itactually means to reclaim sexual power.
Because it’s not just about feeling sexy.  It’s not about lingerie or lip gloss. It’s about coming home to your deepest truth.

Sexuality is spirituality.

And if we really understood that, we would see less trauma, fewer toxicrelationships, and way more women walking through life in their full radiance.

Historically, our sexuality as women has been strippedaway through religion, culture, abuse, media, and generational shame. We’ve been taught our bodies are “too much” or “not enough.” We’ve been trained to disconnect, hide, or silence our erotic truth.

But your power as a woman? It lives right there in yoursexuality.

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In this episode, Jen explores the deeper difference between simply asking for what you want and powerfully declaring it as already done.

Through a personal story about upleveling her family’s golf trip experience, she shares how holding steady in certainty, even when things don’t go as planned, can open unexpected doors.

Jen unpacks how declaring with trust and expectation rather than hoping or doubting can shift how we receive in life, business, and relationships.

In this powerful episode, I share one of the most courageous decisions I’ve ever made one that began with a radical act of honesty: refusing to betray myself.

We dive into the quiet, hidden ways women abandon their truth to stay comfortable, keep the peace, or fit in and what it really takes to choose yourself, even when it terrifies you.

If you’ve ever felt the pull between what’s expected and what your soul is screaming for, this episode is your wake-up call.

The moment you stop betraying yourself is the moment everything begins to change.

In this episode, we explore the limiting belief that sex is only for procreation and how that mindset has stripped sexuality of its sacred power.

Jen invites you to rethink everything you've been taught about sex, pleasure, and intimacy. This isn’t just about the physical act it’s about connection, embodiment, and reclaiming your sensuality as a source of power, not shame.