Things so not end up sour they start sour. ( a bad foundation)
1. Self IMAGE
Self identity
Self image
Self determination
Who do you think and say you are?
* Be significant by yourself
* Low opinion about self is not modesty but self destruction.
* First thing that get affected first by the devil is your image.
* Lack of self image is a root of insecurity
2. Gift of single hood *Functionality and abilities . Gen 1:26 created in our likeness, You function like God.* *Marriage should come as a disruption of a well lived successful, purposeful single life and not a rescue mission of a lonely miserable life.
3. Gift of work Gen 2: 15 to dress it and to keep it.
* Marriage needs money by itself.
* Work teaches you to be -Creative , improve, produce, make better, increase,
* Marriage is team work
* Marriage teaches you to be accountability
* Work teaches us excellence
* Customer service
Listen and do satisfy your customer.
* My partner is my customer, listen to feedback.
* Efficiency is also leant from work
* Human relations… work teaches you how to work and thrive with other human beings
* Work teaches you productivity
4. Gift of the presence and the word of God.
* Gen 2:7 Adam was a man of God.
* Adam was living under an open heaven
5. Gift of space
Appreciate your space, to learn boundaries Gen 2:8
Space trains you about -Territory, authority, management of resources, and discipline.
6. Name
* Adam was given a name before a woman.
* The gift of a name
* The power and honour of your name.
* Reputation pride history
The gift of sanctity
* brand new, fresh, unused, unadulterated, wrapped and sealed for delivery
* Adam knew no woman, saw none, and lusted non.
Purity and competition
Purity against masturbation
Pornography
Fornication/ adultery