She Said It Out Loud with Emma Young

In this episode, I’m joined by the wonderful Kristy Gray — owner of the small biz concierge and events coordinator for female coaches and who gives an unforgettable energy into everything she does.

I first met Kristy at a candles and cocktails event she ran a few years ago in Perth and wondered where she got to with that business? Well it turns out, she experienced near burn out from trying to do ALL the things.... FIFO, small business operator running back-to-back to back and it wasn't until a near miss, that could have ended in tragedy...WOKE her up and things needed to change. 

✨ What we chat about:

• Kristy's background and how going through a divorce shaped who she is today
• Her journey into being a FIFO working whilst setting up a successful candle making business. 
• The story behind her current business, the small biz concierge and how this has grown exponentially over the past 18 months.
• Branding, presence, and standing out in an events setting up space and how she has become the go to for women in business. 
• What’s next for Kirsty in 2026

💖 This episode is for you if:
You love real no BS stories from someone who made changes in their life and personal journey to become a badass in her field! 

🔗 Connect with us:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Instagram: @_kristygray_
• Instagram: @harmony_jade

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

Episode 20 -  SOLO - 90’s Nostalgia Trend 

I will never stop banging on about how good the 80, 90s and 00’s were BUT in particular the 90s! There I said it!  I'm a proud millennial, maybe even an elder millennial really as I'm an 82 vintage and the starting point is 1981! 

This episode I go on to discuss and have a chat with you all about my thoughts on the 90’s Nostalgia Trend, yes the one with the Goo Goo dolls song Iris in the background. Its not even just that…I've been harping on for the past 2 years at least about how I miss the “good ol days”. 

Today’s chat is about that.  Plain and simple!

✨ What I talk about:

• 90s and how good they were!  
• A simpler time and why I think everyone is loving the trend right now. 
• Asking for you to send me a DM about what you loved about the 90's too!

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

Episode 19 -  Diana Richardson - Principal Advisor, Former Mormon, Mother and Friend of 16 years

In today’s deeply honest and emotional episode, I’m joined by Di Richardson, who shares her raw and real journey through grief, healing and leaving the Mormon Church. 

Di and I have known each other for 16 years so in this episode we sit down and have a deep and emotional conversation. Di opens up about experiences that are rarely spoken about openly, but so deeply felt by many.

⚠️ Content Note:
 This episode includes discussions around the loss of a baby, leaving the Mormon Church and grief. Please take care while listening, pause when needed, or skip this episode if it feels too heavy right now.

✨ What we talk about:

• Di’s background and the experiences that shaped who she is today
• Marrying very young, moving to the USA and growing up as a Mormon in Perth.
• Navigating the loss of a baby through SIDS and going straight into studying her first Post Grad in Teaching. 
• Moving to a remote community up north, living there for a number of years to then complete a Masters degree and becoming a Deputy Principal. 
• Seconded to a very challenging Level 4 Associate Principal position to a nearby, small town and working and living there for another 5 years. 
• Going into an even more leadership role in the Kimberley working in curriculum. 
• Moving back to Perth, getting divorced and navigating life as a single Mum. 
• Accepting a position as a Principal Advisor, guiding primary school principals across WA through everyday school life, pressures and school improvement. 
• Leads the state Phonics Initiative to improve reading across WA. 

💛 This episode is for you if:

• You’ve experienced the loss of a child 
• You’ve grown up religious and left the church
• You want to hear an honest, compassionate conversation that makes you feel less alone and will inspire you as a woman who is a high achiever. 

If this episode resonates with you, please consider sharing it with someone who may need to hear it. These stories matter — and so do you.

          Find me at @officiallyemmayoung

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Zee Scott — a celebrant, MC, and creative entrepreneur who brings warmth, humour, and unforgettable energy to everything she does. AND dont even get me started on her incredible laugh! 

I first met Zee at a celebrant conference in Coogee back in 2019, and even years later she continues to stand out for her vibrant personality and innovative ideas.

✨ What we chat about:

• Zee’s background and her journey into becoming a Marriage Celebrant and MC — and how it all came together.
• The story behind Bento and Bubbles, the ultimate girls’ night out combining cake decorating, bubbles, and connection AND celebrating the celebrations! 
• How the idea for Bento and Bubbles was born and how it’s grown over the years.
• Whether similar businesses exist — and what makes Zee’s offering truly unique.
• Moving from London to Australia and what makes Melbourne feel like home.
• Hosting her first supper club and whether this is just the beginning.
• Why banter matters, what good banter really is, and why it’s such a big part of Zee’s personality.
• Branding, presence, and standing out in a crowded celebrant industry.
• What’s next for Zee in 2026?

⚡ Rapid‑fire round:

• One thing Zee wishes for women in 2026
• A celebrant pet peeve
• Thoughts on people who don’t understand banter
• Three words people would use to describe her
• Something she’s deeply grateful for
• A shout‑out to a woman who inspires her

💖 This episode is for you if:

You love creative business ideas, bold personal branding, meaningful connection, and a good laugh along the way.

🔗 Connect with us:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Instagram: @zeescott
• Instagram: @bentoandbubbles

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

In this episode, I welcome Sabrina, a talented boudoir photographer from America now based in Geelong, who, alongside her husband Jake, is redefining what it means to feel beautiful and empowered in your own skin. We explore the journey from self-doubt to self-appreciation, and how boudoir photography can be a transformative experience for women everywhere.

Highlights from the episode:

• Sabrina’s Story: Discover how Sabrina’s upbringing shaped her passion for photography and empowering women.
• What is Boudoir? Sabrina clarifies the true meaning behind boudoir photography and why it’s about so much more than just taking pretty pictures.
• The Power of Self-Appreciation: We discuss the importance of self-worth, breaking the cycle of self-sabotage, and how every woman deserves to feel beautiful.
• Client Experience: Sabrina shares what it’s like to book a session with her and Jake, and how they create a safe, warm, and inviting studio space.
• Teamwork & Trust: Hear about the unique dynamic of working as a husband-and-wife team, and how Jake’s confidence and support play a role in their business.
• Transformative Impact: We dive into the changes Sabrina witnesses in her clients’ confidence and self-esteem after a photoshoot
• Evolving Perspectives: Sabrina reflects on how women’s attitudes towards boudoir photography have changed over the years.
• Motherhood & Business: Balancing life as a mum and a business owner—Sabrina shares her strategies and honest insights.
• Rapid Fire Fun: Get to know Sabrina with quick-fire questions about favourite poses, memorable moments, and the women who inspire her.

Whether you’re curious about boudoir, looking for a confidence boost, or simply want to hear an inspiring story of creativity and empowerment, this episode is for you.

@officiallyemmayoung

@apricotaura

Website: http://www.apricotaura.com.au 

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

Episode 16: Ella Bourne – Aussie Actress, Director, Producer, Voice over artist and Surfing Buff.

Have you ever wondered what it takes to juggle the roles of actress, director, producer, voice over artist and surfing enthusiast?

In today’s episode, we’re recording at Apricot Aura studio in Geelong, and I’m thrilled to introduce my guest, Ella Bourne. Ella is an actress, director, voice over artist and producer who truly does all the things! She was recommended by another guest, Zena, who described Ella as an amazing friend and a creative powerhouse. I knew I had to get her on the podcast!

About Ella: We kick off with Ella sharing a little bit about herself, where she grew up, and how those experiences shaped who she is today. Her journey is inspiring, and she’s taken on a whole laundry list of roles, thriving as a multi-talented woman in the industry. We also discuss how she has been living in LA the past decade. 

Acting & Inspiration: We dive into how Ella became an actress and what inspired her to venture into acting. She gives us insight into her time in LA, where many Aussie actors go to hone their craft and chase big dreams.

Directing & Documentary: Not only is Ella an actress, but she’s also a keen surfer and has taught surfing. She made her director debut with the documentary “Great Ocean Love.” Ella shares how this project came about and her motivation to direct a documentary close to home.

Creative Sustainability & Hightide Production Co. In 2016, Ella graduated with a Master of Arts, with a thesis titled ‘Creative Sustainability.’ This passion led to the creation of Hightide Production Co, a company focused on the environment and positive social discourse. Ella discusses whether this was always her plan or a passion that evolved over time.

Upcoming Projects: Ella is set to be a producer on the upcoming film “Cowboy The Movie.” She talks about this exciting project and what it means to her.

Voiceover Work: We also explore Ella’s work as a voiceover artist, how she learned the craft, and whether it was a natural extension of her acting skills.

Looking Ahead: With “Cowboy The Movie” in the works, Ella shares what’s next for her and if there’s anything else in the pipeline for 2026.

Rapid Fire Questions: To wrap up, we spice things up with rapid fire questions:

• What is the best advice you have ever received on set?
• Favourite film director?
• A memorable moment from your acting career so far?
• Is there a dream person you would like to act alongside or work with in the future?
• What is something you are truly grateful for?
• Plus, a shout out to Zena Lythgo who is a great connector or people and someone Ella admires.

Connect & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with friends who might find it inspiring. Follow Ella on Instagram for more highlights and behind-the-scenes stories.

@officiallyemmayoung

@ella_frances

@greatoceanlovefilm

@cowboy_the_movie

@emmathecelebrant

http://www.ellabourne.com

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

Episode 15: Zena Lythgo – Funeral/Marriage Celebrant, Sisterworks Supporter, Potato farmer and Calming Presence.

Join us in the studio at Apricot Aura in Geelong as we welcome Zena, a remarkable celebrant whose reputation for authenticity, compassion, and dedication to couples has inspired many. Having first met at a celebrant conference in Coogee in 2019, I have watched Zena’s business flourish, admiring her commitment and dedication to her couples. Not only is Zena a sought-after marriage celebrant, but also a well-known funeral celebrant in Victoria—a rare combination that we explore in depth today.

Key Interview Topics & Questions

• Zena shares their background, upbringing, and how these experiences shaped her journey and values.
• Insights into what inspired Zena to become a funeral celebrant, and the unique challenges and rewards of this role.
• The differences in preparing for weddings versus funerals, and the emotional impact of working closely with grief and death.
• Reflections on how this work has influenced Zena’s own life and perspective.
• A look at Zena’s website and branding—was her authentic online presence intentional, or did it evolve naturally as her reputation grew?.
• Embracing slow living: Zena and her partner Jimmy’s adventures in van life and potato farming in the Otways, and how this lifestyle fits around her business.
• Zena’s work and ongoing support for SisterWorks Inc, a not-for-profit supporting women from asylum seeker, refugee, and migrant backgrounds. Learn how Zena became involved and why giving back is so important to her.

Rapid Fire Questions: To wrap up, Zena answers quick-fire questions about life experiences, places of comfort, words that resonate in farewells, self-descriptions, gratitude.

If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review on Spotify or Apple, and share it with friends who might find it inspiring. Follow Zena on Instagram for more highlights and behind-the-scenes stories.

@officiallyemmayoung

@zenalythgo.celebrant

@idodrivethruweddings

@emmathecelebrant 

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

Episode 10: Surviving the boss from hell and much needed self-reflection - Solo Episode

How often do you give yourself credit for the progress you’ve made, both big and small?

This solo episode is all about taking time to reflect on your personal journey—how you’ve arrived at where you are today, and why it’s important to pause and appreciate your progress.

The Power of Reflection. Many of us rarely take a moment to look back on our    achievements and experiences, regardless of gender. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on the past five years, recognising how much can change and how far you’ve come.

Career Transitions: I share a personal story of moving from 14 years as a primary school teacher (including 8 years of relief work) to starting a celebrant business. This transition involved taking a leap of faith, studying for a new qualification, and building a reputation from scratch.

Facing Challenges: In 2020, a new role as a disability employment officer brought unexpected challenges, working with clients facing complex barriers to employment. The experience highlighted the realities of supporting people with disabilities and the impact of COVID-19 restrictions on the workplace.

Tough Work Environments: I discuss a difficult period working in business development, facing verbal abuse and a toxic environment. This experience ultimately led to a decision to resign and prioritise wellbeing.

Resilience and Growth: Each career move—whether positive or challenging—taught valuable lessons in resilience, self-worth, and standing up for oneself. The journey also included further study and a new role teaching adults in remote communities, which became a source of joy and fulfilment.

Encouragement to Listeners: Take time to reflect on your own journey, celebrate your achievements, and consider how you’ve grown. Reflection isn’t just about the good times—it’s also about recognising areas for self-improvement and striving to be a better person.

Memorable Quote: “Growth isn’t always comfortable, but every challenge is a chance to become stronger.”

Tune in for an honest, inspiring reflection on personal growth, career changes, and the importance of celebrating your own journey. If you take away anything from this episode, I hope it’s to make time to reflect on your own journey. You might just come away surprising yourself on just how far you’ve come.

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

In this episode, I sit down at the Watson’s Bay Hotel in Sydney to chat with the multi-talented Marney McQueen—actress, comedian, musical performer, marriage celebrant, DJ and publican—whose journey is as colourful as her career. Our story begins with a meeting at a celebrant conference in Coogee in 2019, followed by spontaneous adventures from Wyong to Broome. Over the years, Marney’s generosity and vibrant spirit have left a lasting impression, and in this episode, she joins me to share her remarkable story.

From Stage to Pub:
We explore Marney’s unique journey from starring in the musical Priscilla Queen of the Desert to buying and transforming a pub. She shares how life sometimes imitates art, and what inspired her to take on this new role as a publican, blending her love for entertainment with hospitality.

Community Impact and Charity:
Marney’s pub isn’t just a venue for music and shows—it’s a hub for giving back. She discusses her passion for charity work, having raised over $250,000 for Central Coast charities through events at her pub. We talk about the profound impact these efforts have had on the local community and how her commitment to making a difference has grown over the years.

A Life on Stage:
With a career spanning standout roles in musicals like Hairspray and memorable characters such as Rosa Waxoffski and Karen the Border Security Agent, Marney’s versatility shines. She also shares stories from her two decades of mentorship under the late, great Barry Humphries, being friends with Michael Caton and Jacki Weaver and how she has learnt that its important to keep chasing your big dreams.

Balancing Big Roles and Real Life:
We chat about Marney’s recent starring role as Celine Dion in the musical Titanique, which ran for nearly a year at the Grand Electric in Sydney. Marney reflects on the challenges and triumphs of juggling a demanding stage role, running a pub, and being a mum—all at once. We also talk about her other role as a marriage celebrant and being cautious with taking on too many weddings so she isn’t letting any couples down.

Red Carpet Moments:
Marney shares her experience attending the ARIA Awards, offering a glimpse into what it’s like to be part of Australia’s biggest music night and seeing Olivia Dean perform.

What’s Next:
We look ahead to Marney’s upcoming projects, including her appearance at the Perth Festival, and ask what new roles or adventures might be on the horizon.
If you enjoyed this episode, PLEASE share it with friends who love stories of generosity, creativity, and community spirit. Follow us on social media for updates and exclusive behind-the-scenes content!

@marneymcqueen

@titaniquemusicalau

@royalhotelwyong

@fashioncritical

@emrusciano

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant

The episode opens with a warm welcome to Lauren, where we reflect on her reputation for authenticity and skill as a celebrant, and what its like working alongside her professional wedding photographer husband, Rhys.

Path to Becoming a Celebrant
●The conversation explores Lauren’s motivation for becoming a celebrant, revealing personal insights and the influence of her partnership with Rhys, a professional wedding photographer. The dynamic of working together as a duo is discussed, including whether couples tend to book both of them.

Branding & Online Presence
●Lauren’s website and branding are highlighted, with discussion about the intentionality behind her aesthetic choices and how these have evolved with her reputation in the industry.

International Adventures
●We further dive into Lauren and Rhys’s tradition of spending European summers marrying couples, exploring how this idea originated and how they balance international work with life at home in NSW.

Lauren’s Own Wedding
●I ask Lauren about her own dream wedding, and discuss the planning involved in creating such a memorable day.

Industry Trends
●The conversation shifts to the impact of cost of living on couples’ budgets, and whether Lauren’s reputation attracts clients who are less price sensitive.
If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review, and share it with friends who might find it inspiring. Don’t forget to follow Lauren on Instagram to see highlights from her own wedding and more behind-the-scenes stories.

@hungryhearts_co

@yourdaybychloe (Chloe: Wedding Planner)

@morelifefilms (Chelsea: Photographer)

@bylucy.weddings (Lucy: Content Creator)

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

• Instagram: @officiallyemmayoung
• Emma the Celebrant