In this episode, I sit down with Shelly, a men’s dating coach who helps guys understand women, build real confidence, and stop getting wrecked by chronically-online dating advice. We break down why the “6-6-6” myth (height, money, status) is massively oversimplified, what women actually mean when they say they want safety, and how attraction is built through presence, momentum, and calibrated vulnerability.

We also talk tactics that actually work:

• How to start better conversations on dating apps (without boring interview vibes)
• When to move off the app and how to ask her out with a clear plan (place + day + time)
• Why “creepy” can be too passive or too aggressive
• How logical, heady men can unlock playfulness and flirt naturally
• How to use real-world reps, rejection practice, and hobbies to build social confidence fast

If you’re a guy who feels stuck, bitter, or invisible in dating, this episode is a reset: less blame, more skill, more freedom.

Links:

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shelleybadayos
  
  
• Program page: https://coachingwithseashells.com/datingwithconfidence

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