In this episode, I’m joined by Mandy, a certified sex and relationship coach, for an honest, nuanced conversation about sexual desire, shame, fantasies, communication, and self-connection.

Mandy shares how her coaching path began organically through years of answering sex-related questions online, eventually leading to professional certification and a full-time practice. We explore why connection starts with self, how cultural and religious conditioning creates sexual shame, and why fantasies are often about emotions and healing, not literal acts.

We dive into how to talk about kinks and desires with a partner, why these conversations should happen outside the bedroom, and how to create safety so your partner doesn’t make your desires “about them.” Mandy explains how she helps clients navigate high-risk or taboo fantasies ethically and safely, while honoring consent and boundaries.

We also discuss masculine vs feminine energy (without gendering it), why relationships don’t have to last forever to be successful, and how embodiment and self-permission are key to authentic intimacy.

If you’re curious about sexuality, communication, modern relationships, or releasing shame around desire, this episode goes deep.

Links & Resources:

• Website: https://heartsdesire.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Instagram: @heartsdesirecoaching 

For a typology-based, video call only, intimacy app, go to www.amoraea.com

In this episode, I sit down with Merilee(also known as “Solana”) for a deep conversation about love, ego, trust, boundaries, and what it means to live from virtue in relationships. Merilee shares why she identifies as a “child of the Most High,” how she received the name “Solana,” and why she believes most people misunderstand love because they’ve never learned how to define it beyond culture, emotion, or attachment.

We explore the difference between divine love vs ego-based behavior, why recurring relationship conflicts repeat (assumptions, accusations, and defensive communication), and how to set boundaries without trying to control other people. Merilee breaks down her perspective on trust using a powerful “treasure chest” metaphor, explains how to recognize character early by listening to everyday speech patterns (blame, complaining, assumption-making), and shares a real-life story of staying grounded during a hostile confrontation.

We also debate expectations vs standards, emotional expression vs projection, and monogamy vs polyamory, with Merilee arguing that virtue-based love requires a higher standard of self-accountability and discernment.

Merilee's work is focused on teaching people how to “win by virtue,” one move at a time, and she shares where to find her book and contact her directly.

Links mentioned:

• Merilee / Solana’s website: merrileesolana.com
• Book: The Game: Winning by Virtue One Move at a Time (email her via the website for access/details)

For a video call only app, that gives you curated matches based on your typology, visit www.amoraea.com!

In this episode, I sit down with Lexi Faith an intuitive Vedic astrologer, expressive arts therapist, and lifelong mystic whose journey started before she could even speak. Raised in a Chinese Buddhist temple in New York, Lexi was surrounded by tarot, astrology, meditation, and spiritual teachings from childhood. Today she blends Vedic astrology, tantra, yogic practice, and intuitive work to help people understand their emotional patterns, relationships, and life purpose.

We go deep into the real difference between Vedic and Western astrology, why Vedic is astronomically accurate, and how the lunar calendar, nakshatras, and divisional charts create a level of nuance that pop-astrology completely misses.

Lexi explains why your “sun sign” barely scratches the surface, how synastry really works in long-term relationships, why the Moon determines emotional compatibility, and how her psychic sensitivity developed after decades of inner work and meditation.

We also explore:
 • Why two astrologers can read the same chart differently
 • Why ancient systems like Chinese astrology and Mayan astrology tell different but interconnected stories
 • How culture shapes interpretation
 • Why skeptics misunderstand astrology
 • Why scientific studies struggle to test something this complex
 • How intuition, mythology, and math all merge inside a Vedic chart
 • Why online astrology generators are limited
 • Whether AI can ever replace real astrologers
 • How to actually start learning Vedic astrology

If you’re curious about astrology beyond memes and stereotypes, this episode will give you a grounded, intelligent, and deeply human look into one of the world’s oldest psychological systems.

Find Lexi Faith:
 • Instagram: https://instagram.com/thelexifaith

 • TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@thelexifaith

 • YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thelexifaith

 • Book a reading: https://lexiefaith.com

In this episode, intimacy coach Claudia Scarlet breaks down the real reasons sexual connection is so hard today. We explore feminine safety, masculine insecurity, intergenerational trauma, porn conditioning, emotional numbness, and why women shut down right when men think things are going well.

Claudia explains how women can rebuild sensitivity, how men can cultivate presence, how to handle a woman’s “no,” and how to create genuine intimacy that feels safe, erotic, and connected. We dive into Daoist sexual practices, multi-orgasmic men, semen retention, cervical orgasms, self-pleasure rituals, de-armoring, and why sex can become a path to spirituality, not just pleasure.

This conversation is raw, grounded, embodied, and full of practical tools for anyone who wants better sex and deeper connection.

Find Claudia:
 Instagram: @ClaudiaScarlet
 Facebook: Claudia Scarlet

For a matchmaking app that maches you based on typology and is video only, visit www.amoraea.com!

In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author and women’s dating coach Elena McKenzie to unpack the real reasons modern dating feels impossible. Elena shares her “rags to riches” dating story—from a decade of casual situationships to becoming magnetic, confident, and happily married—and explains why both men and women are struggling in today’s dating landscape.

We break down feminine energy, masculine loneliness, the truth about attention vs. connection, why people stay in painful patterns, and how belief systems shape who you attract. Elena explains how women can learn to “receive,” why men misinterpret female experience, and how to communicate desires without control. We also explore polyamory, monogamy, insecurity, attraction, boundaries, and whether humans are meant to love one person or more.

This conversation hits every layer: emotional, psychological, energetic, embodied, and practical. If you want real connection—not just matches—this episode will shift how you date.

Find Elena:
 Website: https://www.sovereign-dating.com/
 Book: The Art of Feminine Seduction

In this episode, I sit down with intimacy guide and vulnerability coach Rina Trevi to explore what real intimacy feels like in the body and how conscious touch transforms relationships from the inside out.

We talk about shibari (the Japanese art of tying) not as a kink, but as a tool for emotional honesty, nervous-system safety, and deep connection. Rina explains why attunement matters more than technique, why desire fades in long-term relationships, and how couples can rebuild connection by creating a shared emotional foundation.

We dive into safety, confidence, polarity, sexuality, changing needs, boundaries, and the truth about polyamory versus monogamy. Rina also shares her approach to conscious touch, tantric bodywork, and why skill, presence, and self-worth are more attractive than looks.

If you’re curious about intimacy, emotional depth, or conscious relationships, this episode gives you a grounded, honest look at what it means to connect beyond the surface.

Resources:

• Website: vulnerabilitycoaching.com

Go to www.amoraea.com for a video only, typology-matching dating app!

In this episode, I sit down with certified Enneagram teacher and author Rosemary Hurwitz to explore how the Enneagram supports emotional health, authentic communication, and deeper connection in dating and relationships.

We talk about how the Enneagram reveals your core patterns, how your stress and growth lines shape attraction, and why your vibration matters far more than your number when it comes to choosing a partner. Rosemary explains the three instincts (self-preservation, social, and sexual), how levels of health influence compatibility, and how to use the Enneagram as a tool for self-awareness rather than a tool for labeling people.

We also dive into mistyping, finding your real type, and why so many people misunderstand their core motivations. Rosemary shares her journey from corporate recruiting to pastoral studies to becoming a holistic coach, and the story behind her bestselling book Who You Are Meant to Be: The Enneagram Effect.

If you’re curious about how the Enneagram can help you date better, love more consciously, and understand your emotional patterns at a deeper level, you’ll get a lot out of this conversation.

Resources:

• Website: https://spiritdrivenliving.com/
• Book: Who You Are Meant to Be: The Enneagram Effect
• Instagram: @enneagramempowerment

Go to www.amoraea.com for a video only, typology-based matchmaking app

In this episode of The Amoraea Podcast, we sit down with Chris Wolf, a world-class online dating photographer, coach, and Human Design enthusiast, to explore how energy, mindset, and self-worth shape attraction.

Chris shares how trauma and limiting beliefs quietly sabotage your matches, what it really means to date as a Projector in Human Design, and why the most magnetic men are the ones grounded in purpose, not performance.

You’ll learn:

• The hidden link between subconscious beliefs and dating results.
• How Projector energy works in dating (waiting for invitations vs. forcing outcomes).
• Practical fashion advice to instantly level up your dating photos.
• Why confidence, presence, and purpose beat looks every time.
• How to navigate modern dating apps without losing integrity.

They also discuss the gender imbalance on major dating apps, how corporations like Match Group profit from scarcity, and why mission-driven platforms like Amoraea aim to bring back authentic, typology-based connection.

 Resources & Links

• Chris Wolf’s website: https://www.krystalloswolfe.com/

Go to www.amoraea.com for video only, typology-based matchmaker for real connection

Conscious relationship coach and bestselling author LaShawn McQuarie joins me to explore how self-awareness transforms love, triggers, and communication. We dive into why meditation and body awareness are essential for emotional intelligence, how to process triggers without blame, and why every conflict in a relationship points back to deeper healing. The episode also unpacks infidelity, forgiveness, and the growing curiosity around polyamory — with honest reflections on what real intimacy requires.

Resources:

• Website: BeforeWeGoAnyFurther.com
• Book: Before We Go Any Further

Go to www.amoraea.com for a video only, typology-matching dating app

Sex and masculinity coach T. Tebow joins Matt to talk about healing sexual shame, mastering premature ejaculation, and reclaiming true masculine power. From bartender to global men’s coach, T. shares his personal transformation — from insecurity and porn addiction to authentic confidence in the bedroom and beyond.

They explore how men can integrate mind and body through mindful masturbation, breathwork, and emotional healing; how to navigate the “nice guy” trap; and how to express sexual desire with confidence and integrity.
 Learn how to embody the “Dark Gentleman” — a man who’s both dangerous and loving — and how women test for emotional strength, not perfection.

Whether you struggle with performance, shame, or emotional disconnection, this episode will help you reconnect with your power, pleasure, and purpose.

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To find T's school group, go to www.skool.com/the-real-men-3572