"I expect you to _____" is the starting point to many dead-end conversations.  First, it is not a conversation -- it is a demand.  Second, it often leads to resentment, resistance, or both.

And yet, it tends to be the default for many parents.

Why?

Because they don't see an alternative.

Let me suggest one:  Agreement.

"Can we agree ______?" is often far more productive -- and FAR more likely to actually happen.

This is not abdication of parenting.  It is recognizing that expectations don't work in relationships.  But agreements can be built.

Give it a try.

Listen in to this week's podcast to learn how.

Raising Thriving Children Series

Introduction

Eggs, Balls, And Turtles

The Important Influence On Children

Ingredients To Thriving Children

Antidote To A Narcissistic World

Teaching Thrive Principles To Kids