Shift & Receive

We are burnt out on dating apps and in-person singles events are having a real moment. In this episode of Shift and Receive,Alexandra shares her full playbook for making singles events actually work, from the mindset shift to walk in with to the exact order of moves that sets your night up for success. 

She covers when to arrive, why you should do a lap before you touch the bar, how long to stay with any one person, what to say instead of "what do you do?", and why giving your Instagram beats giving your number. If you've been to a singles event and left feeling like it was a bit of a bust, this episode will change how you show up to the next one. 

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Spring is here, and you want to find love. Let me give you the blueprint.

In this episode, I am sharing my full step-by-step on how to manifest love this spring and summer, including the things nobody else puts in these lists. We cover getting clear on what you actually want, becoming a match to the person you are calling in, making space in your life and your home, and why your nervous system needs to be ready to receive what you have been asking for. I also share the story of the man who did what I wanted and why it gave me the most spectacular ick of my life, and what that moment taught me about subconscious rewiring.

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You have the career, the self-awareness, the beautiful life and you are still single while someone you know, someone who seems like an absolute mess, just got engaged.

If that has ever hit you like a slap in the face, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Shift and Receive, I am getting into one of the most painful and misunderstood patterns in manifesting love: the moment you start comparing yourself to someone who "should not" have love before you, and what that comparison is actually doing to your ability to attract it. This is one of the subtler ways we put love outside of ourselves, and it is one of the most important things to understand if you are serious about changing your love life.

What You'll Learn:

• Why seeing your "chaos friend" get married can send your manifesting completely off track
• The exact trap your logical brain falls into when it starts listing all the reasons you deserve love
• Why love has absolutely nothing to do with merit, achievements, weight, career, or how much work you have done on yourself
• What "birthright" actually means in the context of manifesting, and why it changes everything
• The devastating way high-achieving women put love outside of themselves without realising it
• Why the women who find love easily are not doing more
• How subconscious rewiring gets you to that belief faster than anything else

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If you're brilliant at manifesting things for your business/ career but love feels like the one area where nothing sticks, this episode is going to explain exactly why, and what to do about it.

I've had this conversation so many times, with other entrepreneurs and have myself lived it. You know manifestation works, you've seen it work. You can pull in a new client, a speaking opportunity, a business breakthrough, often within days. And yet somehow, the one thing you actually want most, a great relationship, feels completely out of reach. It's baffling and exhausting.

In this episode, I'm getting into the real reason high-achieving women struggle to manifest love.

What You'll Learn:

• Why the same skills that make you amazing in life and business are actively working against you in love
• How approaching dating like a strategy, a numbers game, is not the solution
• The real reason you keep putting love on the back burner
• Why the universe keeps filling your life with more work, and how your beliefs are driving that
• The hidden fear underneath "I just haven't met the right person yet"
• What it actually means to manifest from feminine energy, and why it's so different from how you manifest everything else
• Why rewiring your subconscious is the only thing that actually changes the pattern

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Everybody has a type, but are you still single because of it? Whether it is that he works in finance is 6'2 and has blue eyes or he is the educated kind, your type could be keeping you single.

In this episode I explain why the subconscious loves a type and why it might be harder to find real love if you stick to your type "on paper".

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You do not have a dating problem.

That might sound out of touch when the internet is full of stories about bad behaviour on the apps, men who cannot hold a conversation, and red flags at every turn. But stay with me, because this episode is going to challenge something most women in the dating world have absorbed without realising it.

In this episode of Shift and Receive, I get into one of the most important manifesting principles there is: you do not attract what you want, you attract what you believe. And if everything around you, social media, your friends, your own past experiences, has been building a subconscious case that good men do not exist, that is exactly what your reality will keep confirming. I share my own experience of noticing this pattern, why the brain is hardwired to remember the bad and forget the good, and what actually changes when you rewire the belief.

What You'll Learn:

• Why "there are no good men" is a belief problem, not a dating problem, and why that distinction matters so much
• The core manifesting principle: you attract what you believe, not what you want
• How social media, the manosphere, and your social circle can quietly build a subconscious story that keeps good men invisible to you
• Why your brain is neurologically wired to remember bad experiences and dismiss good ones, and how that shapes what you keep manifesting
• The real reason your algorithm, on the apps and in life, keeps showing you the same type of man
• What changed when I rewired my own belief about men
• How changing a belief shifts not just who you attract but how you show up, what you accept, and how regulated your nervous system feels on dates

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You have done enough healing. That is not the problem.

If you are self-aware, have spent years in therapy or personal development, know your patterns inside out, and are still single, this episode is going to reframe everything. Because the missing piece is not more healing.

In this episode of Shift and Receive, I explain the difference between awareness and actual subconscious change, why you can heal something completely at a conscious level and still keep running the same pattern in your relationships, and what it actually takes to break the cycle for good. If you have ever felt stuck on the self-development hamster wheel while your love life stays exactly the same, this is the episode that explains why, and what to do instead.

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Tired of the dating apps? Just because most people are addicted to the dating apps it doesn't mean you cannot find love outside of Hinge, bumble or any other dating app.

In this episode I give you 3 places where you can find available men organically that are exactly what you are looking for.

Ready to change your love life in 2026? Take my quiz "what is your biggest love block?" and get a personalised subconscious rewiring audio with your result so you can start manifesting love the right way!

Quiz: https://alexandrabellerose.com/take-the-quiz/ 

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Ever wished someone (or your specific person?) would finally say the thing you’ve been waiting to hear… without you pushing to make that happen in the 3D?

 It’s absolutely possible and easier than you think!

If you're like most women in this community, you don’t just want love… You want reciprocity, effort and clarity. The kind of connection where you feel chosen without trying to perform for it.

Today’s episode shows you how to tap into the energetic channel between you and someone else so they naturally reflect the version of you you’ve already become.

Whether you’ve been doubting your ability to influence your reality…
Even if they’ve gone quiet, are inconsistent, or confusing…

You can completely shift the dynamic, step into your power, and receive the exact words, energy, and behaviour you’ve been craving.

Let’s do this!
Alex xx

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Shift and receive is the Manifestation podcast for women who are done over- efforting and ready to call in magnetic love, financial abundance, unshakable confidence, and a life of ease.  

I'm Alex, a manifestation and subconscious rewiring coach here to help you shift your self-concept, release hidden blocks, and open yourself to fully receive everything you've been desiring. 

If you've done the vision boards, the journaling, the affirmations, the healing, but your reality is still not catching up. You are definitely not alone. This podcast goes beyond the fluff and the hustle to help you create real grounded inner shifts that make your manifestations inevitable. 

It's time to shift who you are and receive everything you were always meant for.

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