'Ships in a Kitchen

'Ships in a Kitchen

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'Ships in a Kitchen episodes

  • Should I Freeze My Eggs, Or Wait For The Ring

    This episode tackles a subscribers dilemma. She loves her boyfriend and they both want kids, but there's a hitch. He's happy with things as they are, while her dream includes a trip down the aisle before starting a family. Her faith also plays a role, making having kids out of wedlock a non-starter. Feeling the pressure of time, she has wondered if egg freezing is the way to go. Can she have both love and a family on her own terms? Join us for an informative discussion about navigating this tricky situation and figuring out the best path forward.

    40 min
  • Red Flags vs Deal Breakers: Where To Draw The Line

    This episode tackles deal breakers - the relationship roadblocks that can halt things in their tracks. We'll dish on our own non-negotiables and explore common ones like communication issues or differing values. Is there wiggle room, or are some things instant dealbreakers?

    41 min
  • Why Do We Hate Our Bodies? How To Break Free From Body Dysmorphia

    This episode tackles self-image and body dysmorphia. We explore how childhood shapes how we see ourselves, examine generational weight struggles, and offer advice to avoid passing them on. Join us for a raw discussion on challenging negative self-perception and building body acceptance.

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    Website: nickybamgbade.com
    TikTok: @nickybamgbade
    Instagram: @nickybamgbade @davidbamibade
    πŸ‘‚ Let's Connect - Share Your Stories:

    45 min
  • Building Your Authentic Self: Escaping The Identity Trap

    In this episode, Nicky and David discuss identity! They explore how easy it is to get caught up in what others expect or what we see online. They break down the pressure to fit in and the anxieties of comparison that can cloud our sense of self.

    🌐 Explore More:
    Website: nickybamgbade.com
    TikTok: @nickybamgbade
    Instagram: @shipsinakitchen
    πŸ‘‚ Let's Connect - Share Your Stories:

    39 min
  • Till Debt Do Us Part: The Pricey Cost of Getting Married

    This episode dives into the eye-watering cost of weddings. We explore the pressure of traditional ceremonies, the hidden costs that can snowball, and how couples are getting into serious debt for a single day. Is the dream wedding worth the financial hangover? We explore alternative options and budgeting tips to help you say "I do" without saying goodbye to your future savings.

    🌐 Explore More:

    Website: nickybamgbade.com
    TikTok: @nickybamgbade
    Instagram: @shipsinakitchen
    πŸ‘‚ Let's Connect - Share Your Stories:

    38 min
  • Is the UK too Toxic for Success? The Tall Poppy Problem

    Do you sometimes feel like the UK has a secret handshake for keeping success down? That's Tall Poppy Syndrome in action! In this episode, we dig into this cultural quirk and explore why some Brits feel threatened by those who shine.

    We'll discuss:
    What is Tall Poppy Syndrome and how does it manifest in the UK?
    From celebrities to colleagues, is anyone safe?
    Why does celebrating success seem "un-British"?
    Are there ways to overcome Tall Poppy Syndrome and thrive anyway?
    🌐 Explore More:
    Website: nickybamgbade.com
    TikTok: @nickybamgbade
    Instagram: @shipsinakitchen
    πŸ‘‚ Let's Connect - Share Your Stories:
    #marriageadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #money
    #success

    28 min
  • Unmasking Our Past: Childhood Abuse & The Ego's Struggle

    Ever wonder why we sometimes sabotage ourselves or act impulsively? Our egos can play a big role! This episode dives deep into how our upbringing can shape our ego. Nicky & David also explore the sensitive topic of childhood abuse and its lasting impact on how we view ourselves and the world.

    Trigger Warning: This episode discusses childhood abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is advised.
    Join us as we explore:
    How our past shapes our ego
    The link between ego and self-sabotage
    Childhood experiences in underprivileged communities
    Recognising the signs of childhood abuse (and where to get help)
    By understanding our ego and its roots, we can make choices that empower us, not hold us back.

    51 min
  • Why do We Hesitate to Ask for Help from Loved Ones?

    In this episode of Ships in a Kitchen, Nicky and David tackle the often-overlooked challenge of seeking help. We all know the saying "just suck it up," but why do so many of us struggle to ask for support, even from loved ones?

    Nicky and David dive deep into the reasons why reaching out can feel difficult. They explore the societal pressures that can make seeking help seem like a sign of weakness, along with the fear of burdening others or losing control.
    They also discuss specific situations where asking for help can be especially challenging, like childcare, financial needs, or simply needing a listening ear.
    Learn how to build stronger connections and a better support system by embracing the power of asking for help.
    🌐 Explore More:
    Website: nickybamgbade.com
    TikTok: @nickybamgbade
    Instagram: @shipsinakitchen
    πŸ‘‚ Let's Connect - Share Your Stories:

    44 min

About 'Ships in a Kitchen

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Ships in a Kitchen is a podcast created by husband and wife, David & Nicky Bamgbade simply with the aim of encouraging relationships with humour, transparency and Biblical truth based on their own cute yet crazy-ish testimony of love, marriage and unplanned pregnancies!