Trever and Bry talk about their favorite chores in a season of life where they have two kids under two, and some things need to be left undone.

These are a few of our favorite things and how we would change our lives if we could.

From Earl Grey Tea (hot) to hot cocoa cold, Trever and Bry discuss a staple in the Shirin household: hot beverages.

You know about Christmas and Valentine's Day, but do you know about Lima Bean Respect day or Trever's Podcasts Day?

Disclaimer: We are kind of using a loose definition of tradition, ritual, culture, and memories in this episode.

We would love to be able to hear from you about your hot-takes, challenges to our ideas, or things that stood out to you. Send us a voice message through the Anchor app, or using the link below. We may use your voice in an episode down the road too!

If you could only do one hygiene task for an entire week—just one, nothing else—what are you picking? Brushing your teeth? Showering? Washing your hands? (Think carefully before answering.)

This week, we’re diving into the weird, the overlooked, and the highly debated aspects of hygiene. From how often you should be replacing your toothbrush (spoiler: you’re probably overdue) to a very serious discussion on whether towels actually get dirty, we’re covering all the basics—and all the things you didn’t realize you were supposed to be doing.

Also on the docket:
The exact frequency you should be replacing your underwear (you’re probably overdue for this too)
The ultimate question: Is hygiene about looking clean or smelling clean?
Why Trever thinks brushing your tongue is non-negotiable (and Bry is... reconsidering everything)

A wild revelation about personal scent and how it affects attraction (science is weird, y’all)

This episode will absolutely make you re-evaluate some of your life choices. You’re welcome.

#PersonalHygiene #BrushYourTongue #ThrowOutYourOldUnderwear

What kind of donut are you? No, seriously—if your personality had to be represented by a donut, what would it be?

This week, we're diving into the great donut debate—best flavors, worst takes, and whether donuts are actually a real food. Are they breakfast? A snack? A lawless treat that exists outside of mealtimes? We also attempt to answer deeply philosophical questions like:
Why do donuts have holes? (And should we put them back in?)
Why doesn’t Costco sell donuts? (Conspiracy?)
Are cake donuts even real donuts?
Is water a valid donut beverage choice?

And yes, this episode was recorded with a newborn in the studio. If you hear weird baby noises? No, you don’t.

#DonutDebates #CakeDonutsAreSuperior #CoffeeOrWater?

Is a Costco trip technically a date? What actually makes a date a date? In this episode, we deep-dive into our dating philosophy—what counts, what doesn’t, and why somehow the man is still expected to plan everything.

We unpack love languages in dating, the difference between early dating vs. married dating, and whether money even needs to be a factor. Plus: our first “official” date, which was either incredibly romantic or a trip to Walmart—depends on which one you count.

Other essential topics include:

• A shockingly hot take from Bry about who should pay for dates
• Why coffee is obviously the best date (but is that just a Colorado thing?)
• Trever’s deep psychological struggle with $2 sign purchases
• The undeniable importance of group dates (and how they saved us from awkward pressure)

Also, we may have just inspired ourselves to plan a new date. So, your homework? Take someone—anyone—on a date this week. Romantic, platonic, parental, whatever. Just be intentional, have fun, and maybe grab a Costco chicken bake while you’re at it.

#CostcoDates #LoveLanguages #GroupDatesAreElite

What makes a pet peeve a pet peeve? Is it just an everyday annoyance, or is it something deeper—like a personal vendetta against sticky hands or the absolute crime of calling a cookout a barbecue? In this episode, we deep-dive into the things that irrationally (or very rationally) enrage us, from doors that close on you (Bry’s nemesis) to the sheer audacity of being forced to hold something in public (Trever’s nightmare).

We also uncover the true power of knowing someone’s pet peeves—you can use it for evil (mildly inconveniencing them for fun) or for good (thoughtfully preventing their inevitable rage). Plus, a scientific debate: How many pet peeves does Bry actually have? Trever says 87. Bry insists it’s more like three. The truth? Probably somewhere in the middle.

Join us for an episode of hot takes, strong opinions, and the ultimate gift-giving controversy—do greeting cards even need to exist? Spoiler: Bry has thoughts.

#PetPeeves #BarbecueVsCookout #CardsAreAFraud