Marriage is about becoming one—but what does that mean for your money? For many couples, the question of whether to combine bank accounts or keep them separate is one of the first major financial decisions they face. While the Bible doesn’t speak directly to checking accounts, it does give us a clear picture of what unity, trust, and stewardship look like in marriage.

What Scripture Says About Oneness

In Mark 10:7–8, Jesus says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

That phrase, “one flesh,” is more than physical—it describes an emotional, spiritual, and practical union. Marriage is about sharing a life together, and that includes finances. The Bible doesn’t command couples to have joint accounts, but it does call us to transparency, mutual submission, and faithful stewardship.

Joint accounts are one practical way to live this out, offering a structure of accountability and openness. Separate accounts, while not inherently sinful, can sometimes become symbolic of separate lives if not handled with care.

A story from a banker friend drives this home. One day, a woman came into the bank distraught after discovering her husband had a secret credit card with thousands of dollars in gambling debt. The shock wasn’t just about money—it was about broken trust.

Financial infidelity is devastating because it goes deeper than dollars and cents. It damages the foundation of unity. Ephesians 5:21 reminds us: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” That submission extends to our financial decisions.

Practical Ways to Build Financial Unity

So, what does financial oneness look like in real life? Here are a few steps couples can take:

1. Hold Regular Money Dates

Set aside time each month to review your budget, giving, and goals. These conversations don’t have to be stressful—they can strengthen communication and provide alignment in your marriage.

2. Build a Shared Emergency Fund

Saving three to six months of expenses together demonstrates trust and unity. It says, “We’re in this together, no matter what comes.”

3. Use Tools That Foster Unity

Budgeting apps like the FaithFi app can help you and your spouse manage money together with clarity and purpose. Built on biblical principles, it’s more than just software—it’s a discipleship tool.

Why Financial Unity Matters

Financial unity is ultimately about more than accounts and numbers. It’s about our hearts. When couples pursue oneness in their finances, they reflect the greater reality of Christ’s love for His church—a bond marked by trust, sacrifice, and faithfulness.

Your bank account setup matters far less than your posture toward one another. Ask yourselves:

• Are we making decisions together?
• Are we being transparent and honest?
• Are we aligning our finances with God’s purposes?

When the answer is yes, your marriage becomes a living testimony of the Gospel.

A Bigger Vision for Stewardship

At the end of the day, combining or separating accounts isn’t the ultimate issue. The greater call is to live as one—financially, emotionally, and spiritually—while stewarding God’s resources faithfully.

And if you’d like to go deeper in this journey, I invite you to become a FaithFi Partner. For just $35 a month or $400 a year, you’ll receive exclusive benefits, including our quarterly printed magazine, Faithful Steward. It’s full of biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you grow as a faithful steward of God’s resources.

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On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:

• I’ve paid off my house, but the title company still has my deed. Should I leave it with them, put it in a safety deposit box, or what’s the best way to handle my home’s title?
• I’ve come into $20,000, and I want to invest it wisely. What’s the best way to put this money to work?
• I had a will drafted when my first child was born, but now my youngest is turning 18. I’d like to avoid probate court. What can I do instead of just having a will? I’ve already added beneficiaries to my accounts and want my house title to transfer upon my death.
• When I was younger, I made poor financial choices without seeking godly counsel. I want to encourage others to seek advice from wise, godly people before making financial decisions.

Resources Mentioned:

• Faithful Steward: FaithFi’s New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)
• Bankrate.com
• Wisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money
• Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and Anxiety
• Rich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich Fool
• Find a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)
• FaithFi App

Remember, you can call in to ask your questions every workday at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. You can also visit FaithFi.com to connect with our online community and partner with us as we help more people live as faithful stewards of God’s resources.

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